[Flight] Don't assume _debugStack and _owner is defined for prod elements

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We generally treat these types of fields as optional on ReactDebugInfo and should on ReactElement too.

That way we can consume prod payloads from third parties.

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Critical size changes

Includes critical production bundles, as well as any change greater than 2%:

Name	+/-	Base	Current	+/- gzip	Base gzip	Current gzip
oss-stable/react-dom/cjs/react-dom.production.js	=	6.68 kB	6.68 kB	=	1.83 kB	1.83 kB
oss-stable/react-dom/cjs/react-dom-client.production.js	=	530.57 kB	530.57 kB	=	93.67 kB	93.67 kB
oss-experimental/react-dom/cjs/react-dom.production.js	=	6.69 kB	6.69 kB	+0.05%	1.83 kB	1.83 kB
oss-experimental/react-dom/cjs/react-dom-client.production.js	=	651.66 kB	651.66 kB	=	114.78 kB	114.79 kB
facebook-www/ReactDOM-prod.classic.js	=	674.81 kB	674.81 kB	=	118.78 kB	118.78 kB
facebook-www/ReactDOM-prod.modern.js	=	665.30 kB	665.30 kB	=	117.19 kB	117.19 kB

Significant size changes

Includes any change greater than 0.2%:

(No significant changes)

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