`CtrlSpec` add support for symbolic `Shaped` control values

[anurudhp]

Useful when we know the number of controls, e.g. #1155 (comment)

Related #786

[mpharrigan]

What is missing?

[anurudhp]

Requires some fixes to how shapes and num_qubits are computed to work with symbolics, and updated type hints. Didn't want to over-complicate #1155, so this can be done in a follow-up.

[fpapa250]

@anurudhp @mpharrigan I am finding that MultiControlX(symbolic n).controlled() is causing issues. This issue was linked in the build_call_graph function for MultiControlX with symbolic cvs - what's required to fix this?

Code to reproduce:

n = sympy.symbols('n', integer=True)
bloq = MultiControlX(cvs=HasLength(n)).controlled(ctrl_spec=CtrlSpec(cvs=0))
cost = get_cost_value(bloq, QECGatesCost()).total_t_and_ccz_count()

[anurudhp]

@fpapa250 this will be fixed by #1492 (which removes the call graph override and uses the default from ControlledViaAnd). I tested the code snippet against that branch and it prints {'n_t': 0, 'n_ccz': n}

[fpapa250]

Awesome! That will unblock #1489. Equals.controlled breaks down to that case and is causing issues with the symbolic cost unit test.