Remote work abuse: How we're destroying our own freedom

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Helping high-achievers use business frameworks to win at work & life 💙 | $10M ARR CSM | Remote from 25+ countries

Remote workers are destroying remote work And leadership is laughing all the way to the office Slack on a random 7:43pm night: "Hey, saw Bob emailed. Can you handle?" Email timestamp? 4 minutes ago The email? A password reset The department? Support The urgency? Zero But here's the real problem: Remote work gave us freedom. And we're using it to micromanage each other. In the office, you'd walk by my desk. See me deep in work. And keep walking. But remotely? Every thought becomes a notification. The behaviours that PROVE we can't handle freedom: - Slacking about emails before they've cooled in the inbox - Creating "urgent" because we're bored at home - Performing busy work to look productive - Treating async like it's a 24/7 emergency room You know who loves this? The same executives pushing RTO. Every time you Slack someone at 8pm about nothing? That's another slide in the "remote doesn't work" deck Every fake fire? That's proof we need "supervision" The uncomfortable truth: We're not victims of RTO. We're accomplices. Before hitting send, ask: - Would I tap their shoulder for this in-office? - Can this wait a few hours? - Is it helping? 3x "no" = don't send it. I know... Wild concept 🤷 Which remote worker behaviour is killing our future? 💙

Muhamad Ibrahim

BU Manager @ REDA Chemicals | Chemical Scientist | Expertise in Beauty & Personal Care, Home Care, I&I, and Pharmaceutical Industries.

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When people are spending 4 hours a day in traffic just to show up tired, it makes no sense to keep repeating old habits in a new setup. Remote work was meant to give us balance and trust, not 24/7 availability and fake urgency. The problem isn’t the model — it’s how we’re using it.

Tiffany Stanley, LL.M, PHR

Mediator/ Restorative Practices/Trainer/Coach/HR Operations

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This sounds like less an issue with remote work and more an issue with managers not being able to actually manage without line of sight. Expectations are that work gets done. When in the office statistics show people are 20% of the time "looking" busy. That doesn’t equate to "actual" working. Why would I care if someone spends time taking a long lunch or doing housework, if their actual work is done? When did having a job equate to having authority over every aspect of a person's life. Employers overstep when they think they get to dictate every minute of a person's day. Micromanagement has always been an issue of poor and ineffective management. Do people need to adjust their time management with the flexibility of remote work? Yes, often, but that is a learning curve the same as any career adjustment. However, blaming remote workers for the failings of bad managers is not going to change the fact that employees no longer desire to be imprisoned in an office. Adjustments have to be made around all of the expectations of an employment agreement. Remote work isn't going away. No matter how hard companies try to drag us back.

Allan Mayne

Creative Operations Leader | Cross-Functional Team Leadership | Global Asset Delivery

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Uh, what? This post makes no sense.

Brandon Lamb

Sales Account Executive | Digital Transformation Consultant in the verticals of Architecture, Engineering, Construction industries in Western Canada

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Let’s not forget that a remote culture isn’t 8:30-4:30, or 9:00-5:00. It allows the remote worker the flexibility and balance to manage work outside the normal working hours, providing they can juggle it all.

Donna Keeley

Instructional Designer/Online Training Developer

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I don't know where you get your information but for this professional remote work is BY FAR more productive than in an office environment. While we had Teams instead of Slack, there was nothing so important that we had to drop everything and respond to every message. If it was important, we had a video chat. Although I am biased as I began my career when you worked at work and were home not doing work when you clocked out. Never had a pager, which also interrupted people before the internet. As the saying goes: "Lack of planning on your part does not demand an immediate response on my part." Remote work allows companies to hire the best talent regardless of where that person lives.

Greg Faherty, CPRW, NCOPE, CCC

Greg Faherty, CPRW, NCOPE, CCC | Helping Professionals & Leaders Advance Their Careers | 17,000+ Career Packages Delivered | Executive Resume Writer | LinkedIn Specialist | Career Coach

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Things I've seen: - Taking long lunch breaks, leaving the desk for hours to do housework. Sure, you're getting all your assigned work done, but it's showing management you don't need 8 hours to do it. So either hours should be cut or pay. That's why all these remote jobs are offering much lower salaries. - Not communicating well with co-workers because they're just faceless entities in the internet void. There is no personal connection which means no empathy and no partnerships among team members. - Lack of professional attitude. Recently heard from someone that they have a member of their office management team who takes client meetings while on their treadmill, or with kids running around in the background, or pets making noise, etc. This makes clients wonder if you deserve their business.

Alyssa VanderMolen

Senior Clinical Team Manager

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Working flexibly means I’m emailing/messaging when it suits me, and you reply when it suits you. Just because someone works at 8pm their time zone doesn’t mean someone needs to reply immediately. Stop having FOMO and don’t check your messages after your working hours.

Aman Preet Saini

Enterprise CSM | Customer Advocacy & Data Enthusiast

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No wonder remote work burnout is real. The lines between urgent and non-urgent keep getting blurred.

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Matt Chakovski

Technical Support Manager

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“Hey have you got time to chat?” “Need to ask something, I’ll just wait in the call” “I see you’re in a 1:1, this is urgent can I just join you and your direct in the call if you don’t mind”

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Vaalea Darkke

Compliance - Quality Management - Ontario Condo Management

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You have these big companies with branches in more than one location who have to work together, and somehow they are able to. Companies need to communicate effectively with clients and customers over email so why is it supposedly difficult to do so with colleagues? In other words if colleagues are not able to effectively communicate without being face-to-face, what kind of experience is the client/customer receiving? Strong internal asynchronous communication — clear writing, transparent documentation, shared context — builds the same skills that improve customer experience.

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