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Communication Coach, transforming introverts, nerds and tech geeks into successful, confident communicators. Host, TEDx speaker and creator of +1 Confidence™. Ex-stand-up comic, ex-video game designer.

I’m slightly obsessed with The Diplomat on Netflix. It has: 🗡️ Kate Wyler, a flawed, brilliant, relatable lead 🎤 Razor-sharp dialogue ⚡ Endless power plays, shifting status and near-miss disasters It’s gripping, smart, and full of communication lessons that go way beyond politics: 1️⃣ Listen properly. Don’t just wait for your turn, because in this show, the person who actually listens usually wins the argument. 2️⃣ Be assertive. Stay polite, but don’t get flattened. Speak up, and throw a lifeline to anyone else being steamrollered. 3️⃣ Be kind to yourself. Everyone in this show is one crisis away from a breakdown, so remember: self-compassion beats self-destruction. 4️⃣ Dress well. Smart clothes say “I’m ready.” They project dedication, organisation and self-respect before you've even said a word. Sure, it’s about diplomacy, not your average Monday meeting, but the lessons are solid. Watch it, steal the techniques, use them at work. Ideally without the international incident. #selfdevelopment #confidence #communication

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Susie Tobias

WordPress troubleshooter | Website untangler

3d

A brilliant show! Savouring every moment Allison Janney & Bradley Whitford are on screen together.

Kirsten Butzow (she/her)

Senior Vice President, Customer Operations

2d

Ummmm. Guilty. Must appeal to Brits and Americans!

Andy Boothman

Busy as AB - Creating a buzz for your business, human-centred brand development. DressCode - Live I.T Love I.T Wear I.T

2d

Good observations and a great series.

Rowan Ambrose

Founder. Freelance copywriter and content writer—gleefully writing sensory-rich words for perfume, fine chocolate and speciality coffee brands | garden writer | 🌷 simple ideas for glorious gardens 🌷

3d

I loved this too, Jon. It all feels very real. And absolutely brilliantly written.

Jamie Thornton

Shy Guy Jamie | Helping Shy Professionals Speak Up & Be Heard with the Click Method

2d

Every scene in The Diplomat feels like a live demo in confident communication!

Alex Osborne, MSc

Programme Manager at Foam Works Digital Limited

3d

I've binged watched since it first came out. The writing is excellent. I love the messiness of the characters, the ideas in situ, the overstepping, the annoyance, the dishevelled look Kate has and as you say, the continual near misses.

Ann Hawkins

The world has changed and the way people want to do business has changed. By working with peer groups, ethical clients and suppliers we can build businesses that make society better for everyone.

3d

I agree - a masterpiece of communication skills (and the sharp thinking helps too!)

Bengü Tiffany K.

Public Relations | Global Communications

2d

Agreed! I think this is such a sharp show.

Chris Thorne

Director of Marketing at Ascend Advanced Therapies | Scientist | Dad

3d

Love it Jon

Rachel Way

Guiding business owners from chaos to confidence | Driving people-first leadership | Practical support, strategy, and outsourcing | Business Mentor | Speaker

3d

Loved every minute, finished series three last night and the final episode alone speaks to everything you say here.

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