Handbook of Closeness
and Intimacy
Debra J. Mashek
George Mason University
Arthur Aron
State University of New York at Stony Brook
LAWRENCE ERLBAUM ASSOCIATES, PUBLISHERS
2004 Mahwah, New Jersey London
CONTENTS
Preface ix
1 Introduction 1
Debra J. Mashek and Arthur P. Aron
SECTION I: WHAT ARE CLOSENESS AND INTIMACY?
2 A Prototype Model of Intimacy Interactions in Same-Sex Friendships 9
Beverley Fehr
3 Closeness as Including Other in the Self 27
Arthur P. Aron, Debra J. Mashek, and Elaine N. Aron
4 Deep Intimate Connection: Self and Intimacy in Couple Relationships 43
Karen J. Prager and Linda J. Roberts
5 Intimacy as an Interpersonal Process: Current Status
and Future Directions 61
Jean-Philippe Laurenceau, Luis M. Rivera, Amy R. Schaffer,
and Paula R. Pietromonaco
SECTION II: HOW CAN CLOSENESS AND INTIMACY
BE MEASURED?
6 Measuring Closeness: The Relationship Closeness Inventory (RCI)
Revisited 81
Ellen Berscheid, Mark Snyder, and Allen M. Omoto
7 Thinking Close: Measuring Relational Closeness as Perceived
Self-Other Inclusion 103
Christopher R. Agnew, Timothy ƒ. Loving, Benjamin Le, and Wind Goodfriend
8 A Practical Look at Intimacy: ENRICH Couple Typology 117
Edward R Kouneski and David H. Olson
SECTION III: WHAT ARE THE GENERAL PROCESSES
OF CLOSENESS AND INTIMACY?
9 Interdependence, Closeness, and Relationships 137
Caryl E. Rusbult, Madoka Kumashiro, Michael K. Coolsen, and Jeffrey L. Kirchner
CONTENTS
10 An Attachment Theory Perspective on Closeness and Intimacy 163
Nancy L Collins and Brooke C. Feeney
1 1 Sexual Passion, Intimacy, and Gender 189
Kathleen D. Vohs and Roy F. Baumeister
1 2 Perceived Partner Responsiveness as an Organizing Construct
in the Study of Intimacy and Closeness 201
Harry T. Rets, Margaret S. Clark, and John G. Holmes
SECTION IV: WHAT INDIVIDUAL DIFFERENCES PLAY A ROLE
IN CLOSENESS AND INTIMACY?
13 The Relational Self-Construal and Closeness 229
Susan E. Cross and Jonathan S. Gore
14 The Link Between the Pursuit of Intimacy Goals and Satisfaction
in Close Relationships: An Examination of the Underlying Processes 247
Catherine A. Sanderson
15 The Impact of Adult Temperament on Closeness and Intimacy 267
Elaine N. Aron
SECTION V: WHAT SITUATIONAL FACTORS PLAY A ROLE
IN CLOSENESS AND INTIMACY?
16 Beyond the Individual: Concomitants of Closeness in the Social
and Physical Environment 287
Ximena B. Arriaga, Wind Goodfriend, and Andrew Lohmann
3 0 5
17 Loss of an Intimate Partner Through Death
Camille Β. Wortman, Karin Wolff, and George A Bonanno
3 2 1
18 The Cultural Grounding of Closeness and Intimacy
Glenn Adams, Stephanie L Anderson, and Joseph K. Adonu
D A R K S I D E T O C L O S E N E S S
3 4 3
19 Desiring Less Closeness With Intimate Others
Debra J. Mashek and Michelle D. Sherman
2 0 Closeness as Intersubjectivity: Social Absorption
and Social Individuation 357
William Ickes, Joanna Hutchison, and Debra Mashek
3 7 5
2 1 Methods for Overcoming the Fear of Intimacy
Robert W. Firestone and Lisa Firestone
CONTENTS Vii
22 Avoidant Attachment: Exploration of an Oxymoron 397
Robin S. Edelstein and Phillip R. Shaver
CONCLUSION
23 Conclusion 415
Arthur P. Aron and Debra J. Mashek
Author Index 429
Subject Index 445