Etiquette
&
Good
Manners
Definition
Personal and self care
Introductions and greetings
Dining etiquette
Table manners
10 commandments
No, No’ s
Yes, Yes’ s
Famous quotes
Allthe lessons of savoir vivre can be
resumed in these words: Learning
to be at Ease …
The message: authoritative,
conservative, and competent
Men: hair, beard, dental hygiene
,nails, smells, suit, shirt and last but
not least socks and shoes
Women : hair, eyebrows, nails,
Hand
Shake
Card
giving
1) Liqueur glass
2) Brandy snifter
3) Port glass
4) Alsace glass
5) Bordeaux glass
6) White wine glass
7) Burgundy glass
Sit straight and try not to lean on the table.
Keep your elbows off the table and close to
the body when you are eating.
On the table, mobiles, keys and what can’t
be eaten doesn’t belong to it
However, when you stop to talk, it is okay
to rest your elbows on the table and lean
forward.
Continental:
Knife in your
right hand
American:
Shift split
Thou shall not jump straight into
business talk
Thou shall not be late
Thou shall not table hop
Thou shall not talk politics, diet or family
Thou shall not dominate the
conversation
Thou shall not dawdle over the ordering
or eating
Thou shall not neglect the old lady next
to you
Thou shall not answer your mobile
Don’t salt your food before you taste
Don’t push your plate or chair away
Don’t rearrange or stack your dirty
dishes
Never tilt your chair
Don’t ask people where they are going
when they get up from the table
If you burp, excuse your self to no one
particular
Never crumble crackers in your soup or
blow on it
Don’t chew ice or other inedible parts of
the meal
Always pass the salt & pepper together
Need to get something out of your mouth-
use your tongue & fork
When in doubt, use a utensil rather than
your fingers
Hair in your food- don’t spoil someone
else’s meal by talking about it
Food in teeth, blow nose, rearrange hair- go
to the restroom!
Don’t like your meal- who cares- tell the
host you do!
Inviting
Single in restaurant…
Married at home…
Nothing that touched your mouth should
ever directly touch the table
When you are finished- place your
silverware at 4 :20o’clock
If you spill something don’t make a big
deal about it- offer to pay for cleaning
If you decide to pass on food being
offered, simply say “No Thanks”- no
explanation is needed
Learn to try new foods when you have the
opportunity- you may be confronted with
Good manners will open doors that
the best education cannot.
Clarence Thomas
Respect for ourselves guides our
morals; respect for others guides
our manners .
Laurence Sterne
Etiquette is the science of living.
Emilie Post
Civility costs nothing and buys
everything.
Lady Mary
Worley Montague
A person should be allowed a few
Thank you
Merci
Dankeshon
Gracias
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