The Other Woman and The Wife LLC vs. Kristen Jacobs Lawsuit/Countersuit
The Other Woman and The Wife LLC vs. Kristen Jacobs Lawsuit/Countersuit
12/06/2024 04:49 PM
Shawn M. Peeples
Clerk of Courts
CHELSEA SMALLWOOD :
228 Montego Ky
Novato, CA 94949 :
and :
OLIVIA NICODEUMUS :
3191 Gearhart Rd.
Troy, OH 45373 :
Third-Party Defendants.
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While Defendant Kristen Jacobs ("Kristen") disputes that this matter is properly
before this Court and asserts that this matter should have been brought in arbitration, as
to Plaintiff The Other Woman and the Wife's ("Plaintiff") October 24, 2024 Complaint for
Tortious Interference with Contract and Business Relations; with Jury Demand Endorsed Hereon
("Complaint"):
knowledge or information sufficient to form a belief as to the truth or falsity of those allegations.
denies that the community is for "women healing following an experience with
only community, as permitted on Plaintiff's website, and denies all remaining allegations in
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Kristen makes this Answer and files her Counterclaim and Third-Party Complaint in an abundance of caution and
to avoid waiving any rights or claims. The filing of this Answer, Counterclaim, and Third-Party Complaint is not a
waiver of Kristen's right to arbitration and should not be construed as consent to litigate this dispute in the Common
Pleas Court of Miami County, Ohio.
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Kristen incorporates and restates the headings in the Complaint for purposes of organization only. To the extent
that any heading in the Complaint includes any allegations, the allegations are denied.
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7. Kristen denies the allegations in Paragraph 7 of the Complaint.
9. Kristen admits that she used her credit card to join Plaintiff's online
community and denies that she joined the community under false pretenses. Kristen denies all
10. Kristen denies the allegations in Paragraph 10 of the Complaint for lack of
knowledge or information sufficient to form a belief as to the truth or falsity of those allegations.
information sufficient to form a belief as to the truth or falsity of those allegations. Kristen
admits that she entered into a contract with Plaintiff when she joined its online community.
13. Kristen admits that she is aware that Plaintiff's online community is fee-
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SECOND CAUSE OF ACTION
(Tortious Interference with Business Relations)
18. Kristen denies the allegations in Paragraph 18 of the Complaint for lack of
knowledge or information sufficient to form a belief as to the truth or falsity of those allegations.
Kristen denies that Plaintiff is entitled to any of the requested relief and denies
any allegations contained in the "WHEREFORE" clause of the Complaint, including all
subparts. Kristen further denies any and all allegations that are not specifically admitted.
ADDITIONAL DEFENSES
Without admitting any of the allegations in the Complaint and without admitting
or acknowledging that Kristen bears any burden of proof as to any of them, Kristen asserts the
following additional defenses. Kristen intends to rely on any additional defenses that become
available or apparent during pretrial proceedings and discovery in this action and reserves the
right to amend this Answer in order to assert all such further defenses.
The Complaint fails to state a claim upon which relief can be granted.
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SECOND ADDITIONAL DEFENSE
The Court lacks jurisdiction to resolve this dispute because Plaintiff agreed to
The Court lacks jurisdiction because Plaintiff agreed that state and federal courts
in Kings County, New York have personal and exclusive jurisdiction over any non-arbitrable
claims.
Plaintiff cannot show that Kristen intentionally interfered with any contract or
Plaintiff's claims are barred by the doctrine of unclean hands and its own bad acts.
Plaintiff failed to take reasonable steps to protect itself from damages, if any, and
Plaintiff, in whole or in part, were not proximately cause by any act or omission or failure of
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EIGHTH ADDITIONAL DEFENSE
Plaintiff has not suffered any injury or damage as a result of any conduct of
Kristen.
To the extent that Plaintiff is injured, Plaintiff's injuries are not foreseeable or
The injuries and damages alleged in the Complaint, if any, are the direct and
proximate result of acts and omissions of Plaintiff and its agents, officers, and/or employees.
any, were caused by independent, intervening, and/or superseding acts, errors, omissions, and
causes which Kristen had no control and for which Kristen is not liable.
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FIFTEENTH ADDITIONAL DEFENSE
Kristen specifically reserves the right to assert any and all affirmative defenses
under Civ.R. 8 and any other defenses, in law or equity, that may not exist or that may become
WHEREFORE, Kristen denies that she is liable to Plaintiff for any of the request
for relief set forth in the "WHEREFORE" claims of the Complaint, including all
2. Find that Plaintiff take nothing on its claims against Kristen, including a
3. Dismiss Plaintiff's Complaint with prejudice and deny Plaintiff any and all
5. Award Kristen her reasonable attorneys' fees, costs, and any other relief,
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KRISTEN JACOBS' COUNTERCLAIMS AND THIRD-PARTY COMPLAINT
This action arises from the malicious and unseemly conduct of Defendant The
Other Woman and the Wife, LLC ("TOW"), its owner and founder Chelsea Smallwood
("Chelsea"), and its agent and employee Olivia Nicodemus ("Olivia"). Defendant TOW and
campaign to harass, embarrass, and cause extreme mental distress to Plaintiff Kristen Jacobs
("Kristen"). Instead of acknowledging that Kristen is the victim of Olivia's affair with Kristen's
husband, Defendants seek to further victimize Kristen by violating her privacy and publicly
posting intimate details of the affair on social media platforms, such as TikTok, YouTube, and
Instagram, in order to increase membership of TOW and otherwise profit from Defendants bad
acts. Defendants should not be permitted to further victimize and profit off of Kristen's trauma.
Ky, Novato, California 94949. Chelsea is the founder and owner of TOW.
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BACKGROUND
purpose is to "support women in their healing journey after infidelity," specifically, the "other
woman."
Upon payment of a subscription fee, anyone could become a member of TOW. Members were
$78 per quarter, and the "Premium Subscription" for $98 per quarter.
She agreed to be bound by the "OW Terms of Service" ("Contract Terms"), a copy of which is
attached as Exhibit 1.
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arbitration. Arbitration uses a neutral arbitrator instead of a judge
or jury, is less formal than a court proceeding, may allow for more
limited discovery than in court, and is subject to very limited
review by courts. This agreement to arbitrate disputes includes all
claims whether based in contract, tort, statute, fraud,
misrepresentation, or other legal theory, and regardless of whether
a claim arises during or after the termination of these Terms. Any
dispute relating to the interpretation, applicability, or enforceability
of this binding arbitration agreement will be resolved by the
arbitrator. YOU UNDERSTAND AGREE THAT, BY
ENTERING INTO THESE TERMS YOU AND COMMUNITY
OWNER ARE EACH WAIVING THE RIGHT TO A TRIAL BY
JURY OR TO PARTICIPATE IN A CLASS ACTION."
11. Defendant TOW's Contract Terms further provide that the arbitration is to
be administered by JAMS (§ 15.4), and that prior to doing so, a "Notice of Arbitration" will be
provided to the offending party and include (1) the name of the account or account number of the
complaining party; (2) a description of the nature and basis of the claim; and (3) a specific
demand for relief (§ 15.5). Defendant TOW is required to make a good faith effort to try to
resolve the claim and may only bring a matter in arbitration if a resolution cannot be resolved
12. The arbitration provision applies after the termination of any subscription.
13. Defendant TOW has ignored the arbitration provision by, among other
things, filing this lawsuit and failing to engage in any good faith efforts with Kristen prior to
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15. Kristen, through her counsel, contacted TOW's counsel to have this matter
16. Third-Party Defendant Olivia is Kristen's neighbor, and until August 2023,
Kristen considered Olivia to be a close friend and confidant. In the Spring of 2023, Kristen
confided in Olivia that she believed her husband was engaged in an affair.
17. Around the same time, Kristen began to see a therapist for counseling on
Defendant Olivia was the "other woman" and confronted Olivia with her suspicions. Olivia
denied the accusation. Under the guise of trying to find a therapist for herself, Olivia asked
Kristen for the contact information for Kristen's therapist. Kristen provided the information and
Olivia visited the therapist. However, instead of seeking professional services for herself, Olivia
attempted to convince the therapist that she was not participating in an affair with Kristen's
husband. Olivia lied to Kristen's therapist in order to continue the affair and to interfere with
Kristen's treatment.
19. In August 2023, Kristen confirmed her worse suspicions. After months of
Olivia's gaslighting, she learned that her husband was engaged in an affair with Olivia. By
that was created by Chelsea and disclosed intimate details of the affair. Specifically, Chelsea
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read a text conversation between Kristen and Olivia, and depicted Kristen—the victim of the
21. Kristen considered the affair to be a private and personal matter, and the
22. After viewing the video, Kristen soon learned of Defendant TOW's private
23. Kristen joined the TOW's private community anonymously. In doing so,
she relied on the TOW's Frequently Asked Questions section which provides for anonymity by
allowing members to join without use of their real name, while paying the subscription fee with
24. When joining TOW's online community, its members (Kristen and Olivia)
....
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26. Immediately upon joining the TOW's private community, Kristen learned
that Olivia shared private and intimate details of her affair with Kristen's husband, including that
Olivia engaged in intimate moments while Kristen was asleep in the same room and that Olivia
used Kristen's sex toys while Kristen was away for work. These disclosures began in at least
March 2023, and include, but are not limited to, conversations between Kristen and Olivia
27. Olivia also shared private and personal information about Kristen that she
learned because Kristen considered Olivia to be a close friend, including intimate details about
Kristen's relationship with her husband and results of a test for sexually transmitted disease
28. In addition to sharing private and intimate details of the affair, Olivia
shared photographs of Kristen's family, including her minor child, and information about where
29. Third-Party Defendant Olivia also revealed through her postings that she
was spying on Kristen. In one post on TOW's website, Olivia boasted of using binoculars to spy
on an intimate sexual moment that Kristen and her husband shared within the privacy of their
private property.
false and negative light to justify her betrayal. For example, Olivia falsely identified Kristen as a
member of a "throuple," and falsely stated that Kristen has a sexually transmitted disease.
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31. Olivia also used TOW's community to make threats against Kristen and
her family.
32. Olivia did not make any efforts to conceal or protect Kristen's identify.
33. Instead of monitoring and enforcing their policies protecting the privacy
rights of others, TOW and Chelsea pursued a plan to profit from Kristen's private pain and
suffering.
34. Since at least September 2023, Chelsea used text messages and other
private information shared by Olivia through TOW, and she created content for TOW's social
media platforms.
35. Chelsea made at least a dozen videos, and she also published comments in
the social media chat features, disclosing the personal and intimate information shared by Olivia.
These videos were posted on social medial websites such as TikTok, YouTube, and Instagram.
36. Chelsea also made statements about Kristen that are blatantly false in an
effort to disparage Kristen, such as falsely accusing Kristen of having a sexually transmitted
disease; as being a participant in a "throuple"; that she invited the "other woman" in to her
bedroom; Kristen bullied or harassed members of Chelsea's community, including Olivia; and
Kristen doxed or created fake social media accounts to harass Chelsea or members of TOW's
community.
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37. Chelsea did not make any effort to protect Kristen's or her family's
related and unrelated to content that Chelsea created about Olivia's affair with Kristen's husband.
38. Chelsea's videos and posts were seen by members of Kristen's community.
39. Upon information and belief, TOW profits from engagement on its social
media pages. Stated differently, TOW used Kristen's trauma as clickbait to encourage
40. Chelsea made these posts maliciously and with reckless disregard of the
Kristen on social media, Kristen continued to receive treatment for the severe emotional and
engaging in "harassing" behavior and threatening legal action if she did not cease such actions.
In another email Kristen was falsely accused of misappropriating TOW's intellectual property.
43. Through TOW's social media pages, Chelsea falsely accused Kristen of
bullying, doxing, releasing information about members of TOW, and creating fake accounts to
44. In addition, Chelsea sent Kristen's therapist a letter containing the same
false and disparaging information about Kristen in an effort to interfere with the medical
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treatment and counseling Kristen sought in response to Defendants' harassment and online
bullying.
identifying herself and her family be removed from TOW's community and social medial.
TOW's community.
47. Chelsea refused to remove the content and did not investigate Olivia's
behavior on TOW.
48. Instead, Chelsea and TOW continued their malicious conduct with utter
contacting Kristen's therapist (and provided one of her followers with the therapist's contact
50. As a result of Chelsea and TOW's social media posts, Kristen has received
threatening messages from Chelsea's community and has since had to remove the "comment"
feature from her social media pages and make her social media pages private.
harassment, and false representations, Kristen experiences mental and physical suffering, as well
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FIRST CAUSE OF ACTION FOR BREACH OF THE CONTRACT TERMS BY TOW
53. Kristen joined TOW's online community by paying the subscription fee,
and Kristen complied with all of the conditions associated with the Contract Terms.
54. TOW, Chelsea, and Olivia violated the terms and conditions and engaged
in over a yearlong campaign to embarrass, harass, bully, and demean Kristen through TOW's
online community.
TOW's community, Chelsea refused to investigate and take any action to remediate the behavior.
56. As a direct and proximate result of TOW's actions, Kristen is harmed and
58. Despite knowing that Kristen was the victim of an affair, Defendants
depict Kristen in a false and negative light on TOW's online community and their social media
pages.
gain membership and social media followers for TOW's online community.
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61. Defendants' actions are done maliciously, knowingly and with reckless
64. Defendants use social media and TOW community to make false and
defamatory statements about Kristen, including but not limited to statements relating to Kristen's
marriage and that Kristen is doxing or engaging in behavior online to harass or expose members
65. Defendants post the false and harmful statements on social media and/or
66. Defendants continue to post the false and harmful statements knowing that
they are harmful to Kristen's reputation and expose her to public shame and ridicule.
67. Defendants continue to post false and harmful statements about Kristen
knowing that the statements are false and with disregard that the statements are false.
and entitled to compensatory, damages, including but not limited to harm to Kristen's reputation,
mental anguish and suffering, and the humiliation caused by Defendants' actions, special
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FOURTH CAUSE OF ACTION FOR INTRUSION OF PRIVACY AGAINST
DEFENDANTS
seclusion on her own property by surveilling Kristen's home, which is her private property.
73. Defendant TOW and Third-Party Defendant Chelsea also published those
74. Defendants also intruded upon Kristen's marriage, which she is entitled to
privacy.
75. Defendants did not take any actions to protect the identity of Kristen.
77. Defendants' actions were done with the intent to shame and humiliate
Kristen.
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80. Defendants violated Kristen's right to privacy in her marriage and home by
disclosing intimate and private facts about Kristen's marriage on social media and TOW's online
community page.
83. Details about Kristen's marriage, including Olivia's affair, are not
legitimate concerns of the public, nor were they publicly known prior to Defendants' disclosures.
84. As s direct and proximate result, Kristen has been damaged in an amount
86. Defendants used social media to make written false and defamatory
87. No privilege exists that permits Defendants to make such false and
defamatory statements.
88. Defendants knowingly and maliciously published the false and defamatory
and entitled to compensatory, damages, including but not limited to harm to Kristen's reputation,
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mental anguish and suffering, and the humiliation caused by Defendants' actions, special
91. Defendants, through "reels" or videos on social media spread false and
92. No privilege exists that permits Defendants to make such false and
defamatory statements.
93. Defendants knowingly and with actual malice published the false and
and entitled to compensatory, damages, including but not limited to harm to Kristen's reputation,
mental anguish and suffering, and the humiliation caused by Defendants' actions, special
intimate details about Kristen's marriage, intimate details of Olivia's affair, and contacting
Kristen's medical provider, Kristen would suffer from serious emotional distress.
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97. Defendants' actions are extreme and outrageous and go beyond all bounds
psychic injury that is so serious in nature no reasonable person should be expected to endure.
100. R.C. 2307.60 permits an individual to recover civilly for harm caused by
knowingly makes a post on the internet that is made for the purpose of abusing, threatening, or
harassing another.
103. For over a year, Defendants knowingly posted abusing, threatening, and/or
harassing videos about Kristen on the internet through TOW's community and their social media
accounts.
and entitled to damages, including costs and fees incurred in this dispute as well as injunctive
relief.
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TENTH CAUSE OF ACTION FOR
TORTIOUS INTERFERENCE WITH CONTRACT AGAINST DEFENDANTS
106. Defendants knew that Kristen was receiving professional services from a
and entitled to damages, including costs and fees incurred in this dispute as well as injunctive
relief.
WHEREFORE, Kristen demands that this Court find that Kristen is entitled to:
exemplary damages;
2. Injunctive relief;
4. Punitive damages;
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Respectfully submitted,
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JURY DEMAND
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CERTIFICATE OF SERVICE
I certify that on the 6th day of December 2024, the foregoing Answer and
Counterclaim and Third-Party Complaint of Defendant Kristen Jacobs was served via electronic
and certified mail service by clerk was requested for the following:
Chelsea Smallwood
228 Montego Ky
Novato, CA 94949
Third-Party Defendant
Olivia Nicodeumus
3191 Gearhart Rd.
Troy, OH 45373
Third-Party Defendant
4878-9235-2508.1
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EXHIBIT 1
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Last Updated: August 12, 2024
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amended) and the Community is subject to Service Provider's DMCA policy.
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10. Modification of Terms. We may, from time to time, change these Terms. Please
check these Terms periodically for changes. Revisions will be effective immediately
except that, for existing users, material revisions will be effective 30 days after
posting or notice to you of the revisions unless otherwise stated. We may require
that you accept modified Terms in order to continue to use the Community. If you
do not agree to the modified Terms, then you should remove your User Content and
discontinue your use of the Community. Except as expressly permitted in this
Section 10 (Modification of Terms), these Terms may be amended only by a written
agreement signed by authorized representatives of the parties to these Terms.
11.1. Term. These Terms are effective beginning when you accept the Terms or
first download, install, access, or use the Community, and ending when
terminated as described in Section 11.2 (Termination).
11.2. Termination. If you violate any provision of these Terms, then your
authorization to access the Community and these Terms automatically
terminate. In addition, Community Owner may, at its sole discretion,
terminate these Terms or your account on the Community, or suspend or
terminate your access to the Community, at any time for any reason or no
reason, with or without notice, and without any liability to you arising from
such termination. You may terminate your account and these Terms at any
time by using the mechanism designated in the Community or contacting
customer service at [email protected].
11.3. Effect of Termination. Upon termination of these Terms: (a) your license
rights will terminate and you must immediately cease all use of the
Community; (b) you will no longer be authorized to access your account or
the Community; (c) you must pay Community Owner any unpaid amount that
was due prior to termination; and (d) all payment obligations accrued prior to
termination and Sections 3.3 (Feedback), 4 (Ownership; Proprietary Rights),
11.3 (Effect of Termination), 12 (Indemnity), 13 (Disclaimers; No Warranties
by Community Owner), 14 (Limitation of Liability), 15 (Dispute Resolution
and Arbitration), and 16 (Miscellaneous) will survive. You are solely
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responsible for retaining copies of any User Content you Post to the
Community since upon termination of your account, you may lose access
rights to any User Content you Posted to the Community. If your account has
been terminated for a breach of these Terms, then you are prohibited from
creating a new account on the Community using a different name, email
address or other forms of account verification.
12. Indemnity. To the fullest extent permitted by law, you are responsible for your use
of the Community, and you will defend and indemnify Community Owner, its
affiliates, and their respective shareholders, directors, managers, members,
officers, employees, consultants, and agents (together, the "Specified Entities")
and Service Provider from and against every claim brought by a third party, and any
related liability, damage, loss, and expense, including attorneys' fees and costs,
arising out of or connected with: (1) your unauthorized use of, or misuse of, the
Community; (2) your violation of any portion of these Terms, any representation,
warranty, or agreement referenced in these Terms, or any applicable law or
regulation; (3) your violation of any third-party right, including any intellectual
property right or publicity, confidentiality, other property, or privacy right; or (4) any
dispute or issue between you and any third party. We reserve the right, at our own
expense, to assume the exclusive defense and control of any matter otherwise
subject to indemnification by you (without limiting your indemnification obligations
with respect to that matter), and in that case, you agree to cooperate with our
defense of those claims.
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15.1. Generally. Except as described in Section 15.2 (Exceptions) and 15.3 (Opt-
Out), you and Community Owner agree that every dispute arising in
connection with these Terms, the Community, or communications from us
will be resolved through binding arbitration. Arbitration uses a neutral
arbitrator instead of a judge or jury, is less formal than a court proceeding,
may allow for more limited discovery than in court, and is subject to very
limited review by courts. This agreement to arbitrate disputes includes all
claims whether based in contract, tort, statute, fraud, misrepresentation, or
any other legal theory, and regardless of whether a claim arises during or
after the termination of these Terms. Any dispute relating to the
interpretation, applicability, or enforceability of this binding arbitration
agreement will be resolved by the arbitrator.
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state, or local agency if that action is available; (c) seek injunctive relief in a
court of law in aid of arbitration; or (d) to file suit in a court of law to address
an intellectual property infringement claim.
15.3. Opt-Out. If you do not wish to resolve disputes by binding arbitration, you
may opt out of the provisions of this Section 15 (Dispute Resolution and
Arbitration) within 30 days after the date that you agree to these Terms by
sending a letter to OW, Attention: Legal Department – Arbitration Opt-Out,
[email protected] that specifies: your full legal
name, the email address associated with your account on the Community,
and a statement that you wish to opt out of arbitration ("Opt-Out Notice").
Once Community Owner receives your Opt-Out Notice, this Section 15
(Dispute Resolution and Arbitration) will be void and any action arising out of
these Terms will be resolved as set forth in Section 16.3 (Governing Law).
The remaining provisions of these Terms will not be affected by your Opt-
Out Notice.
15.4. Arbitrator. This arbitration agreement, and any arbitration between us, is
subject to the Federal Arbitration Act and will be administered by the JAMS
under the rules applicable to consumer disputes (collectively, "JAMS
Rules") as modified by these Terms. The JAMS Rules and filing forms are
available online at www.jamsadr.com, by calling the JAMS at +1-800-352-
5267 or by contacting Community Owner.
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15.6. Arbitration Proceedings. Any arbitration hearing will take place in the
county and state of your residence unless we agree otherwise or, if the claim
is for US$10,000 or less (and does not seek injunctive relief), you may
choose whether the arbitration will be conducted: (a) solely on the basis of
documents submitted to the arbitrator; (b) through a telephonic or video
hearing; or (c) by an in-person hearing as established by the JAMS Rules in
the county (or parish) of your residence. During the arbitration, the amount
of any settlement offer made by you or Community Owner must not be
disclosed to the arbitrator until after the arbitrator makes a final decision and
award, if any. Regardless of the manner in which the arbitration is
conducted, the arbitrator must issue a reasoned written decision sufficient
to explain the essential findings and conclusions on which the decision and
award, if any, are based.
15.7. Arbitration Relief. Except as provided in Section 15.8 (No Class Actions),
the arbitrator can award any relief that would be available if the claims had
been brought in a court of competent jurisdiction. If the arbitrator awards
you an amount higher than the last written settlement amount offered by
Community Owner before an arbitrator was selected, Community Owner will
pay to you the higher of: (a) the amount awarded by the arbitrator and (b)
US$10,000. The arbitrator’s award shall be final and binding on all parties,
except (1) for judicial review expressly permitted by law or (2) if the
arbitrator’s award includes an award of injunctive relief against a party, in
which case that party shall have the right to seek judicial review of the
15.8. No Class Actions. YOU AND COMMUNITY OWNER AGREE THAT EACH
MAY BRING CLAIMS AGAINST THE OTHER ONLY IN YOUR OR ITS
INDIVIDUAL CAPACITY AND NOT AS A PLAINTIFF OR CLASS MEMBER IN
ANY PURPORTED CLASS OR REPRESENTATIVE PROCEEDING. Further,
unless both you and Community Owner agree otherwise, the arbitrator may
not consolidate more than one person’s claims, and may not otherwise
preside over any form of a representative or class proceeding.
15.10. Enforceability. If Section 15.8 (No Class Actions) or the entirety of this
Section 15 (Dispute Resolution and Arbitration) is found to be unenforceable,
or if Community Owner receives an Opt-Out Notice from you, then the
entirety of this Section 15 (Dispute Resolution and Arbitration) will be null
and void and, in that case, the exclusive jurisdiction and venue described in
Section 16.3 (Governing Law) will govern any action arising out of or related
to these Terms.
16. MISCELLANEOUS
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16.2. General Terms. These Terms, including the Privacy Policy and any other
agreements expressly incorporated by reference into these Terms, are the
entire and exclusive understanding and agreement between you and
Community Owner regarding your use of the Community. These Terms or
any rights under these Terms, may not be assigned either by us or by you in
whole or in part, by operation of law or otherwise, without our Service
Provider's prior written consent. The failure to require performance of any
provision will not affect our right to require performance at any other time
after that, nor will a waiver by us of any breach or default of these Terms, or
any provision of these Terms, be a waiver of any subsequent breach or
default or a waiver of the provision itself. Use of Section headers in these
Terms is for convenience only and will not have any impact on the
interpretation of any provision. Throughout these Terms the use of the word
"including" means "including but not limited to." If any part of these Terms is
held to be invalid or unenforceable, then the unenforceable part will be given
effect to the greatest extent possible, and the remaining parts will remain in
full force and effect.
16.3. Governing Law. These Terms are governed by the laws of the State of New
York without regard to conflict of law principles. You and Community Owner
submit to the personal and exclusive jurisdiction of the state courts and
federal courts located within Kings County, New York for resolution of any
lawsuit or court proceeding permitted under these Terms. Service Provider
operates the service that we use to provide the Community from its offices
in New York, and we make no representation that Materials included in the
Community are appropriate or available for use in other locations.
16.4. Privacy Policy. You understand and agree to the processing of your
personal data in connection with the Community in accordance with
Community Owner's Privacy Policy, which is hereby incorporated by
reference into Section 16.4 of these Terms.
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about our electronic communications practices. You agree that any notices,
agreements, disclosures, or other communications that we send to you
electronically will satisfy any legal communication requirements, including
that those communications be in writing.
16.6. Notice to California Residents. If you are a California resident, then under
California Civil Code Section 1789.3, you may contact the Complaint
Assistance Unit of the Division of Consumer Services of the California
Department of Consumer Affairs in writing at 1625 N. Market Blvd., Suite N
112, Sacramento, California 95834, or by telephone at +1-800-952-5210 in
order to resolve a complaint regarding the Community or to receive further
information regarding use of the Community.
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17. Notice Regarding Apple. This Section 17 (Notice Regarding Apple) only applies to
the extent you are using our mobile application on an iOS device. You acknowledge
that these Terms are between you and Community Owner only, not with Apple Inc.
("Apple"), and Apple is not responsible for the Community or the content of it.
Apple has no obligation to furnish any maintenance and support services with
respect to the Community. If the Community fails to conform to any applicable
warranty, you may notify Apple, and Apple will refund any applicable purchase price
for the mobile application to you. To the maximum extent permitted by applicable
law, Apple has no other warranty obligation with respect to the Community. Apple is
not responsible for addressing any claims by you or any third party relating to the
Community or your possession and/or use of the Community, including: (1) product
liability claims; (2) any claim that the Community fails to conform to any applicable
legal or regulatory requirement; or (3) claims arising under consumer protection or
similar legislation. Apple is not responsible for the investigation, defense,
settlement, and discharge of any third-party claim that the Community and/or your
possession and use of the Community infringe a third party's intellectual property
rights. You agree to comply with any applicable third-party terms when using the
Community. Apple and Apple's subsidiaries are third-party beneficiaries of these
Terms, and upon your acceptance of these Terms, Apple will have the right (and will
be deemed to have accepted the right) to enforce these Terms against you as a
third-party beneficiary of these Terms. You hereby represent and warrant that: (a)
you are not located in a country that is subject to a U.S. Government embargo or
that has been designated by the U.S. Government as a "terrorist supporting"
country; and (b) you are not listed on any U.S. Government list of prohibited or
restricted parties.
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