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CULTIVATING PRESENCE AND
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 CONTENTS
CHAPTER 1 Introduction: What is Mindful Parenting

CHAPTER 2 The Benefits of Mindful Parenting

CHAPTER 3 Understanding Your Own Triggers

CHAPTER 4 Connecting with Your Children

CHAPTER 5 Mindful Communication

CHAPTER 6 Setting Boundaries with Love

CHAPTER 7 Parenting Through the Stages

CHAPTER 8 Creating a Mindful Home

CHAPTER 9 The Power of Play

CHAPTER 10 Mindful Self-Care

CHAPTER 11 Mindful Parenting in the Digital Age

CHAPTER 12 Conclusion: Embracing the Journey

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INTRODUCTION:

WHAT IS MINDFUL PARENTING?

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INTRODUCTION

What is Mindful Parenting?

Parenting is one of the most rewarding and challenging roles that a
person can take on. It can be an incredible journey of growth and
learning, but it can also be stressful, overwhelming, and even
frustrating at times. Mindful parenting is an approach that can help
you navigate the ups and downs of parenting with greater ease and
presence.

Mindful parenting is about bringing your full attention and awareness

to your interactions with your children. It involves being present in the
moment, letting go of distractions and judgments, and cultivating a
non-judgmental attitude of acceptance and compassion.

By practicing mindful parenting, you can develop a deeper

understanding of your children, foster stronger connections with them,
and create a more peaceful and joyful family life.
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Mindful parenting is not a one-size-fits-all approach. It can be
practiced in many different ways, depending on your personality,
parenting style, and the needs of your children.

Some parents may find that mindfulness practices such as meditation

and yoga are helpful, while others may focus more on developing
their emotional awareness and communication skills. The key is to find
the approach that works best for you and your family.

In this e-book, we will explore the principles and practices of mindful

parenting, and provide you with practical tips and tools that you can
use to cultivate more presence and connection with your children.

Whether you're a new parent or have been raising children for years,
this e-book will offer insights and strategies that can help you deepen
your relationship with your children and enjoy the journey of
parenting with greater mindfulness and joy.
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The Benefits of Mindful

Parenting
HOW IT CAN IMPROVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP
WITH YOUR CHILDREN
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THE BENEFITS OF
MINDFUL PARENTING
Parenting can be a challenging and complex task, and it's natural to
feel overwhelmed or frustrated at times. However, practicing mindful
parenting can help you navigate these challenges with greater ease
and create a deeper and more meaningful relationship with your
children. Here are some of the benefits of practicing mindful
parenting:

Increased Emotional Awareness

Mindful parenting helps you become more aware of your own

emotions and reactions, which in turn can help you regulate your
emotions and respond to your children with greater empathy and
compassion.

Improved Communication

Mindful parenting involves active listening and non-judgmental

communication, which can help you connect with your children on a
deeper level and strengthen your relationship.
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Greater Understanding of Your Children

Mindful parenting encourages you to view your

children with curiosity and openness, allowing you to
better understand their needs, emotions, and
perspectives.

Reduced Stress and Anxiety

By practicing mindfulness, you can learn to let go of

worries and distractions and be more present in the
moment, which can reduce stress and anxiety and
create a calmer and more peaceful family
environment.

Increased Resilience

Mindful parenting helps you develop resilience by

teaching you to stay present and focused in the face
of challenges and to respond to difficult situations with
greater equanimity.

Improved Self-Care

Mindful parenting involves taking care of yourself as

well as your children, which can help you feel more
balanced, centered, and energized.
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conclusion
In Conclusion:
Overall, practicing mindful parenting can help you create a more
positive, loving, and connected relationship with your children.
By staying present and focused in your interactions with your children,
you can deepen your understanding of them, respond to them with
greater empathy and compassion, and create a more joyful and
fulfilling family life.
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Understanding Your Own

Triggers
DEVELOPING EMOTIONAL AWARENESS
AND REGULATION
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UNDERSTANDING YOUR
OWN TRIGGERS
Parenting can be an emotional rollercoaster, with moments of joy,
frustration, and stress all intertwined. To practice mindful parenting,
it's essential to develop emotional awareness and regulation skills,
which can help you respond to your children with greater empathy,
understanding, and calmness.

One of the first steps in developing emotional awareness and

regulation is to understand your own triggers. Triggers are the things
that cause you to feel upset, frustrated, or angry, and they can be
different for every parent. Some common triggers for parents include
sleep deprivation, feeling overwhelmed, and feeling disrespected by
their children.

By becoming aware of your triggers, you can start to develop

strategies for managing them. Here are some tips for understanding
and regulating your own emotions:
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Practice Self-Reflection:

Take some time to reflect on your emotions and

identify the situations or behaviors that trigger them.
Try to observe your thoughts and feelings without
judgment or criticism.

Take a Mindful Pause

When you feel triggered, take a moment to pause and

take a deep breath. This can help you regulate your
emotions and respond to your children in a calmer and
more centered way.

Practice Self-Care

Taking care of yourself is essential for emotional

regulation. Make sure to prioritise activities that help
you feel calm and centered, such as meditation, yoga,
or spending time in nature.

Develop Healthy Coping Strategies

Identify healthy ways to cope with stress and anxiety,

such as exercise, journaling, or talking to a supportive
friend or therapist.

Use Positive Self-Talk

Develop a positive internal dialogue that reinforces

your strengths and abilities as a parent, and helps you
stay focused on the present moment.
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conclusion
In Conclusion:
By developing emotional awareness and regulation skills, you can
create a more peaceful and positive family environment and deepen
your connection with your children. Remember that emotional
regulation is a skill that takes practice and patience, so be gentle
with yourself and take things one step at a time.
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Connecting with Your

Children
THE IMPORTANCE OF
ATTUNEMENT AND EMPATHY
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CONNECTING WITH YOUR
CHILDREN
As a parent, one of your primary goals is to create a strong and
meaningful relationship with your children.
To do this, it's essential to develop attunement and empathy skills,
which can help you better understand and connect with your children.

Attunement is the ability to tune in to your child's emotional state and

respond to their needs with sensitivity and compassion.

Empathy is the ability to put yourself in your child's shoes and

understand their perspective, thoughts, and feelings.

When you practice attunement and empathy, you create a deep and
meaningful connection with your child, which can help them feel
understood, valued, and loved.

Here are some tips for practicing attunement and empathy:

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Listen Actively

When your child speaks to you, listen actively and with

full attention. This means putting aside distractions and
showing that you are fully present and engaged in the
conversation.

Validate Their Feelings

When your child expresses their emotions, validate

their feelings by acknowledging them and showing
empathy. For example, you could say, "I understand
that you're feeling frustrated right now, and it's okay to
feel that way."

Practice Non-Judgmental Communication

Avoid criticizing or judging your child's behaviours or

emotions. Instead, focus on understanding their
perspective and helping them find solutions to their
problems.
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Use Reflective Listening

When your child speaks to you, repeat back what they've

said to show that you are listening and that you
understand their point of view.

Connect Through Shared Experiences

Spend quality time with your child doing things that you
both enjoy, whether it's playing a game, reading a book,
or going for a walk. This can help you create a deeper
connection and build trust and intimacy.
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conclusion
In Conclusion:

By practicing attunement and empathy, you can create a deeper

and more meaningful relationship with your child, which can help
them feel safe, secure, and loved.
Remember that building this kind of connection takes time and effort,
but the rewards are well worth it.
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Mindful Communication
LISTENING AND SPEAKING
WITH COMPASSION
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Mindful Communication
Communication is a vital part of parenting, and how you
communicate with your children can have a significant impact on
your relationship. Mindful communication involves listening and
speaking with compassion, empathy, and understanding. When you
communicate mindfully, you create an environment that promotes
healthy and positive interactions with your children.

Listen with Full Attention

When your child speaks to you, give them your full attention. Make eye
contact, put aside distractions, and listen with an open mind.

Respond with Compassion

Respond to your child's emotions and needs with compassion and

understanding. This means acknowledging their feelings and showing
empathy.
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Practice Non-Judgmental Communication

Avoid criticizing or judging your child's behaviours or

emotions. Instead, focus on understanding their
perspective and helping them find solutions to their
problems.

Use "I" Statements

Use "I" statements instead of "you" statements when

expressing your own emotions or needs. For example,
instead of saying, "You're making me angry," say, "I feel
frustrated when this happens."

Avoid Reacting Impulsively

Take a mindful pause before responding to your child's

words or behaviours. This can help you respond in a
more thoughtful and compassionate way.

Use Positive Language

Use positive language that reinforces your child's

strengths and abilities. For example, instead of saying,
"You're so lazy," say, "I know you have the ability to do
great things."
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conclusion
In Conclusion:
By practicing mindful communication, you can create a positive and
supportive environment that promotes healthy interactions with your
children. Remember that communication is a two-way street, and it's
essential to both listen and speak with compassion and
understanding.
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Setting Boundaries
with Love
NAVIGATING DISCIPLINE WITH
MINDFULNESS
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Setting Boundaries with Love
Discipline is an important part of parenting, but it can be challenging
to navigate without resorting to punishment or harshness. Mindful
discipline involves setting boundaries with love and compassion, while
still promoting positive behaviours and growth in your child. When you
approach discipline with mindfulness, you can create a supportive
and loving environment that promotes healthy development and
growth.

Set Clear Expectations

Establish clear expectations and boundaries for your child's

behaviour. This can help them understand what is expected of them
and reduce confusion and misunderstandings.

Be Consistent

Consistency is key when it comes to discipline. Stick to your

established boundaries and expectations, and make sure to follow
through with consequences when necessary.
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Avoid Punishment

Instead of punishment, use positive reinforcement to

encourage positive behaviours. This can include
praising good behaviour, offering rewards, or using
natural consequences.

Use Discipline as an Opportunity for Learning

Use discipline as an opportunity to teach your child

about responsibility, consequences, and the impact of
their actions. Instead of punishing them for their
mistakes, use the situation as a teaching moment.

Take a Mindful Pause

When you feel frustrated or overwhelmed, take a

mindful pause before responding to your child's
behaviour. This can help you respond in a more
thoughtful and compassionate way.

Communicate with Love

When discussing discipline with your child,

communicate with love and understanding. Show
empathy for their feelings and explain the reasoning
behind your boundaries and expectations.
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conclusion
In Conclusion:
Remember that setting boundaries and enforcing discipline is a
necessary part of parenting, but it doesn't have to be harsh or
punitive. By approaching discipline with love and mindfulness, you
can create a supportive and loving environment that promotes
healthy growth and development in your child.
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Parenting Through
the Stages
MINDFUL APPROACHES FOR INFANTS,
TODDLERS, AND BEYOND
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Parenting Through the Stages
Parenting is a dynamic and ever-changing journey, and each stage
of your child's development presents unique challenges and
opportunities. Mindful parenting involves adapting your approach to
meet your child's needs and promoting healthy growth and
development. By being mindful and present at each stage, you can
create a supportive and loving environment that promotes positive
growth and development.

Here are some tips for practicing mindful parenting through the
different stages of childhood:

Infants

Infants require a lot of attention and care, and it's important to be

present and responsive to their needs. Practice mindful bonding by
holding your baby close, making eye contact, and responding to their
cries and coos. Practice self-compassion and take care of yourself so
that you can be present and attentive to your baby's needs.
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Toddlers

Toddlers are developing rapidly and are full of energy

and curiosity. Practice mindful patience and
understanding by giving your child space to explore
and experiment, while still setting appropriate
boundaries and expectations. Encourage your child's
independence while still offering support and
guidance.

School-Aged Children

School-aged children are developing their social skills

and sense of identity. Practice mindful communication
and active listening to promote healthy relationships
and communication. Encourage your child's interests
and talents while still setting appropriate expectations
for school and responsibilities.

Teenagers

Teenagers are navigating the challenges of

adolescence and developing their sense of autonomy
and independence. Practice mindful acceptance and
understanding by acknowledging their need for
autonomy and privacy while still offering guidance and
support. Encourage healthy decision-making and self-
expression while still setting appropriate boundaries
and expectations.
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conclusion
In Conclusion:
By practicing mindful parenting through each stage of your child's
development, you can create a supportive and loving environment
that promotes healthy growth and development. Remember to be
present, patient, and compassionate at each stage and to adapt
your approach to meet your child's changing needs.
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Creating a Mindful Home

ESTABLISHING ROUTINES AND RITUALS THAT
FOSTER CONNECTION AND PRESENCE
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Creating a Mindful Home
Your home is more than just a physical space - it's a place where you
and your family can feel safe, supported, and connected. By
establishing mindful routines and rituals, you can create a home
environment that promotes presence and connection, and helps you
and your family thrive.

Here are some tips for creating a mindful home:

Establish a Daily Mindfulness Practice

Start your day with a few minutes of mindfulness practice, such as

meditation or deep breathing. This can help you set a positive tone
for the day and promote a sense of calm and presence.

Create Mindful Mealtime Rituals:

Mealtime is an opportunity for connection and nourishment. Create a

mindful mealtime ritual by turning off electronics, setting the table
with care, and taking time to savour your food and connect with your
family.
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Designate Screen-Free Time

Too much screen time can disrupt connection and

presence. Designate screen-free time, such as before
bedtime or during family meals, to encourage
presence and connection.

Practice Gratitude

Cultivating gratitude can promote a positive mindset

and sense of connection. Practice gratitude by
expressing thanks for the good things in your life and
encouraging your family to do the same.

Create a Calm and Peaceful Environment

Your home environment can influence your mood and

stress levels. Create a calm and peaceful environment
by decluttering, bringing in natural elements such as
plants, and using calming colours and scents.
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conclusion
In Conclusion:
By establishing mindful routines and rituals, you can create a home
environment that promotes presence and connection, and helps you
and your family thrive. Remember to be flexible and adaptable, and
to adjust your routines and rituals as your family's needs change. With
mindfulness and intentionality, you can create a home that supports
and nourishes your family.
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The Power of Play

MINDFUL PLAYTIME WITH
YOUR CHILDREN
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The Power of Play
Play is essential for children's development, but it's also a powerful
way to connect with your children and cultivate mindfulness. By
engaging in mindful playtime with your children, you can promote
their development, enhance your relationship with them, and
experience the joy and presence that comes with play.

Here are some tips for practicing mindful playtime with your children:

Focus On The Present Moment

Engage fully in the present moment and be fully present with your
child. Let go of any distractions or worries and focus on the joy and
connection that comes with play.

Follow Your Child's Lead

Let your child take the lead in play and follow their interests and
ideas. This can help them develop their creativity, independence, and
problem-solving skills, while also fostering connection and bonding.
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Practice Active Listening

Practice active listening during playtime, by reflecting

your child's ideas and feelings, and responding with
empathy and understanding. This can help build trust,
enhance communication, and promote emotional
development.

Be Open and Flexible

Be open to trying new things and adapting to your

child's needs and preferences. This can help foster a
sense of curiosity, exploration, and experimentation,
while also promoting your child's independence and
confidence.

Embrace Silliness and Playfulness

Don't be afraid to be silly and playful with your child.

Laughing, joking, and being silly can promote bonding
and connection, and can help your child develop a
sense of humor and joy.
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conclusion
In Conclusion:
By engaging in mindful playtime with your child, you can create a
powerful space for connection, joy, and growth. Remember to be
patient, compassionate, and non-judgmental, and to focus on the
process of play rather than the outcome. With mindfulness and
intentionality, you can create a space for meaningful playtime with
your child.
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Mindful Self-Care
NURTURING YOURSELF SO YOU CAN
NURTURE YOUR CHILDREN
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Mindful Self-Care
As a parent, it's easy to become so focused on your children's needs
that you neglect your own. However, it's essential to prioritise your
own well-being and practice mindful self-care in order to be the best
parent you can be.

Here are some tips for practicing mindful self-care:

Make Time for Yourself

It's important to carve out time in your day or week for self-care
activities. This could include meditation, exercise, a hobby, or simply
taking a relaxing bath. Whatever it is, make sure it's something that
brings you joy and relaxation.

Get Enough Rest:

Sleep is essential for physical and mental health. Make sure you're
getting enough sleep each night, and consider taking a nap or
resting during the day if you need it.
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Eat Well

A healthy diet can boost your energy and mood. Make

sure you're getting enough nutritious foods and staying
hydrated.

Practice Mindfulness

Mindfulness can help you stay present in the moment,

reduce stress, and enhance your well-being. Consider
practicing mindfulness meditation or incorporating
mindfulness into your daily activities.

Connect with Others

Social support is important for emotional well-being.

Make time to connect with friends or family members
who uplift you and provide a sense of community.

Seek Help When Needed

If you're struggling with stress, anxiety, or other mental

health issues, don't hesitate to seek professional help.
Therapy, counseling, or support groups can provide
valuable support and resources.
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conclusion
In Conclusion:
Remember, taking care of yourself is not selfish – it's essential for your
own well-being and for being the best parent you can be. By
practicing mindful self-care, you can cultivate a greater sense of
balance, energy, and joy in your life and in your parenting.
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Mindful Parenting in
the Digital Age
BALANCING SCREEN TIME
AND CONNECTION
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Mindful Parenting in
the Digital Age

In today's world, screens are everywhere, and it can be challenging

to balance technology use with quality family time. As a parent, it's
important to model healthy technology habits and create boundaries
that prioritize connection over screen time.

Here are some tips for practicing mindful parenting in the digital
age:

Set Boundaries

Establish clear guidelines for when and how technology can be used
in your home. This might include limiting screen time during meals or
before bedtime, setting device-free zones in the house, or setting rules
for how much time can be spent on screens each day.
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Model Healthy Technology Use

Children learn from their parents' behaviour, so make

sure you're modeling healthy technology habits. Limit
your own screen time, avoid checking your phone
during family time, and prioritise face-to-face
interaction.

Use Technology Mindfully

Technology can be a valuable tool for learning,

creativity, and connection. Encourage your children to
use technology mindfully, and guide them towards
apps and games that foster creativity, socialisation,
and learning.

Connect in Real Life

While technology can be a great way to stay

connected with loved ones, it's important to prioritise
real-life connection. Make time for family meals,
outdoor activities, and other screen-free experiences
that allow you to connect and bond with your children.

Stay Informed

Keep up-to-date on the latest research and

recommendations for screen time and technology use.
Use this information to make informed decisions about
your family's technology use.
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conclusion
In Conclusion:

By practicing mindful parenting in the digital age, you can create a

healthy balance between technology use and family connection.
Remember, screens are a tool, not a substitute for real-life interaction
and connection. By modeling healthy technology habits and
prioritising face-to-face connection, you can help your children
develop healthy relationships with technology and with each other.
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CONCLUSION:

Embracing the Journey of

Mindful Parenting
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embracing the journey of
mindful parenting
As you've learned throughout this book, mindful parenting is about
cultivating presence, connection, and compassion with your children.
It's a journey that requires practice, patience, and self-awareness. But
by embracing the principles of mindfulness and applying them to your
parenting, you can create a more fulfilling and meaningful
relationship with your children.

Remember, mindful parenting isn't about being a perfect parent. It's

about being present and attuned to your children's needs, while also
taking care of yourself. By practicing mindfulness, you can learn to
respond to your children's needs with greater awareness and
intention, rather than reacting out of frustration or stress.

As you begin your journey of mindful parenting, here are some key
takeaways to keep in mind:
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Practice Self-Care

Take care of yourself so that you can be fully present

for your children. This might include mindfulness
practices, exercise, healthy eating, or simply taking
time to rest and recharge.

Cultivate Awareness

Notice your thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations

throughout the day. This awareness can help you
respond more mindfully to your children's needs.

Prioritise Connection

Make time for quality time with your children, whether

it's through play, conversation, or shared activities.
These moments of connection help build a strong and
meaningful relationship with your children.

Embrace Imperfection

Remember that mindful parenting is a journey, and you

will make mistakes along the way. Embrace
imperfection and use mistakes as opportunities for
growth and learning.
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conclusion
In Conclusion:

By practicing mindful parenting, you can create a more meaningful

and connected relationship with your children. It's a journey that
requires patience, practice, and self-awareness, but the rewards are
well worth the effort. Embrace the journey of mindful parenting, and
enjoy the profound joy and connection that it can bring to your life
and your family.
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