Everlasting Mercy Fellowship
   1 The elder to the beloved Gaius, whom I love in truth. 2 Beloved, I
    pray that all may go well with you and that you may be in good
    health, as it goes well with your soul. 3 For I rejoiced greatly when
    the brothers came and testified to your truth, as indeed you are
    walking in the truth. 4 I have no greater joy than to hear that my
    children are walking in the truth. 5 Beloved, it is a faithful thing you
    do in all your efforts for these brothers, strangers as they are, 6 who
    testified to your love before the church. You will do well to send
    them on their journey in a manner worthy of God. 7 For they have
    gone out for the sake of the name, accepting nothing from the
    Gentiles. 8 Therefore we ought to support people like these, that we
    may be fellow workers for the truth. 9 I have written something to
    the church, but Diotrephes, who likes to put himself first, does not
    acknowledge our authority. 10 So if I come, I will bring up what he is
    doing, talking wicked nonsense against us. And not content with
    that, he refuses to welcome the brothers, and also stops those who
    want to and puts them out of the church. 11 Beloved, do not imitate
    evil but imitate good. Whoever does good is from God; whoever
    does evil has not seen God. 12 Demetrius has received a good
    testimony from everyone, and from the truth itself. We also add our
    testimony, and you know that our testimony is true. 13 I had much
    to write to you, but I would rather not write with pen and ink. 14 I
    hope to see you soon, and we will talk face to face. 15 Peace be to
    you. The friends greet you. Greet the friends, each by name.
   3 men…
     The epistle is addressed to Gaius in order that
      the issue of hospitality might be dealt with.
      Gaius had previously worked w/Paul (see Acts
      19:29; Acts 20:4; Romans 16:23; 1st Corinthians
      1:14; 3rd John 1:1)
     At the writing of the epistle, Gaius & Diotrephes
      were church leaders. Diotrephes, who is a
      wayward leader, used his authority improperly
      (see 3rd John 1:10).
     A comparison is drawn between Gaius &
      Demetrius behavior & Diotrephes behavior
      which was “imitating evil” as opposed to
      “imitating good” (see 3rd John 1:11). We’re going
      to look at all 3 men mentioned by John.
   Gaius
     Beloved (see 3rd John 1:2)
     Walked in truth (see 3rd John 1:3; Psalm 86:11)
     His testimony had veracity (see 3rd John 1:3)
     Referred to as "Child of John“ (see 3rd John 1:4)
     His behavior matched his spiritual father
     Practiced hospitality (see 3rd John 1:5-8; Romans
      12:13; Hebrews 13:2; 1st Peter 4:9)
       1. He was faithful to contribute to the need of the saints
          by showing them hospitality.
       2. He showed his kindness by being hospitable to brothers
          he didn’t know – he didn’t have to build w/them 1st.
       3. His display of hospitality demonstrated his
          understanding of missiology (see Mark 6:10-12)
       4. He encouraged itinerant gospel preachers by
          supporting them w/his hospitality.
   Diotrephes
     Placed himself 1st, his needs above everybody
      else's (see 3rd John 1:9; Philippians 2:3-4; James
      3:16)
     Didn't acknowledge apostolic authority (see 3rd
      john 1:9; Hebrews 13:17)
     Participated in gossip (phluarOn – to bubble up)
      (see 3rd John 1:9-10; Ephesians 4:31)
     Didn't practice hospitality (see 3rd John 1:10-11)
       ▪ Prevented other believers from practicing hospitality
         through use of his authority.
       ▪ Disciplined people who practiced hospitality by revoking
         their church membership.
   Demetrius
     There are 2 Demetrius’ mentioned in scripture.
      This 1, who is clearly a brother & Demetrius the
      Silversmith who was responsible for creating a
      riot in Ephesus (see Acts 19:23-Acts 20:1).
     Demetrius has a solid testimony
      ▪ Verified by all those who know him (see 3rd John 1:12).
      ▪ Verified by the truth which is another way of saying he
        was verified by his fruit (see 3rd John 1:12; Matthew
        12:34).
      ▪ Verified by the apostles who stake their own credibility
        on it (see 3rd John 1:12).
 3rd John 1:11 parallels 1st John 4:20.
 Do not imitate evil (Diotrephes) but
  imitate good (Gaius & Demetrius).
 Love for an unseen God demands love for
  visible believers.
 Failure to do so shows a misunderstanding
  of fellowship with God & fellow believers
  who God loves & gave His grace to.
   Fundamentals of the faith, lesson 6 &
    listen to the John MacArthur sermon,
    Exchanging a living death for a dying life
   Introduction to the gospel of John.

3rd john do this, not that

  • 1.
  • 2.
    1 The elder to the beloved Gaius, whom I love in truth. 2 Beloved, I pray that all may go well with you and that you may be in good health, as it goes well with your soul. 3 For I rejoiced greatly when the brothers came and testified to your truth, as indeed you are walking in the truth. 4 I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth. 5 Beloved, it is a faithful thing you do in all your efforts for these brothers, strangers as they are, 6 who testified to your love before the church. You will do well to send them on their journey in a manner worthy of God. 7 For they have gone out for the sake of the name, accepting nothing from the Gentiles. 8 Therefore we ought to support people like these, that we may be fellow workers for the truth. 9 I have written something to the church, but Diotrephes, who likes to put himself first, does not acknowledge our authority. 10 So if I come, I will bring up what he is doing, talking wicked nonsense against us. And not content with that, he refuses to welcome the brothers, and also stops those who want to and puts them out of the church. 11 Beloved, do not imitate evil but imitate good. Whoever does good is from God; whoever does evil has not seen God. 12 Demetrius has received a good testimony from everyone, and from the truth itself. We also add our testimony, and you know that our testimony is true. 13 I had much to write to you, but I would rather not write with pen and ink. 14 I hope to see you soon, and we will talk face to face. 15 Peace be to you. The friends greet you. Greet the friends, each by name.
  • 4.
    3 men…  The epistle is addressed to Gaius in order that the issue of hospitality might be dealt with. Gaius had previously worked w/Paul (see Acts 19:29; Acts 20:4; Romans 16:23; 1st Corinthians 1:14; 3rd John 1:1)  At the writing of the epistle, Gaius & Diotrephes were church leaders. Diotrephes, who is a wayward leader, used his authority improperly (see 3rd John 1:10).  A comparison is drawn between Gaius & Demetrius behavior & Diotrephes behavior which was “imitating evil” as opposed to “imitating good” (see 3rd John 1:11). We’re going to look at all 3 men mentioned by John.
  • 5.
    Gaius  Beloved (see 3rd John 1:2)  Walked in truth (see 3rd John 1:3; Psalm 86:11)  His testimony had veracity (see 3rd John 1:3)  Referred to as "Child of John“ (see 3rd John 1:4)  His behavior matched his spiritual father  Practiced hospitality (see 3rd John 1:5-8; Romans 12:13; Hebrews 13:2; 1st Peter 4:9) 1. He was faithful to contribute to the need of the saints by showing them hospitality. 2. He showed his kindness by being hospitable to brothers he didn’t know – he didn’t have to build w/them 1st. 3. His display of hospitality demonstrated his understanding of missiology (see Mark 6:10-12) 4. He encouraged itinerant gospel preachers by supporting them w/his hospitality.
  • 6.
    Diotrephes  Placed himself 1st, his needs above everybody else's (see 3rd John 1:9; Philippians 2:3-4; James 3:16)  Didn't acknowledge apostolic authority (see 3rd john 1:9; Hebrews 13:17)  Participated in gossip (phluarOn – to bubble up) (see 3rd John 1:9-10; Ephesians 4:31)  Didn't practice hospitality (see 3rd John 1:10-11) ▪ Prevented other believers from practicing hospitality through use of his authority. ▪ Disciplined people who practiced hospitality by revoking their church membership.
  • 7.
    Demetrius  There are 2 Demetrius’ mentioned in scripture. This 1, who is clearly a brother & Demetrius the Silversmith who was responsible for creating a riot in Ephesus (see Acts 19:23-Acts 20:1).  Demetrius has a solid testimony ▪ Verified by all those who know him (see 3rd John 1:12). ▪ Verified by the truth which is another way of saying he was verified by his fruit (see 3rd John 1:12; Matthew 12:34). ▪ Verified by the apostles who stake their own credibility on it (see 3rd John 1:12).
  • 8.
     3rd John1:11 parallels 1st John 4:20.  Do not imitate evil (Diotrephes) but imitate good (Gaius & Demetrius).  Love for an unseen God demands love for visible believers.  Failure to do so shows a misunderstanding of fellowship with God & fellow believers who God loves & gave His grace to.
  • 9.
    Fundamentals of the faith, lesson 6 & listen to the John MacArthur sermon, Exchanging a living death for a dying life  Introduction to the gospel of John.