DOLESCENCE
Neither Young, Nor Old
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What is Adolescence?
It is a period of hormonal adjustments
It is a period of immense stress and strain
It is a fascinating period . Infatuation, Love etc
It is a period of discovering. Self discovery
It is a period of living out
It is a period of exploring
The Changes that occur in
Adolescence
Cognitive Development
Self concepts and self esteem
Sexuality and morality
Relationship with family
peer and society
Biological Development
Adolescents in India
30% are NOT COMFORTABLE TALKING TO THEIR PARENTS about their own
problems.
67% of all school students CHEAT in exam, at least once.
45% teenage girls would prefer to TERMINATE UNWANTED
PREGNANCIES without telling their parents.
21% teenagers are get UNWANTED DEMANDS FOR SEXUAL
ACTIVITY from stranger on the Net.
1 out of 5 is SMOKING at an alarming rate of 13 to 15 sticks a day.
65% face persisting problems to which they SEE NO SOLUTION.
1 in 2 teen NECKS and KISSES.
1 in 5 teen watches PORN before the age 13.
15% drink ALCOHOL when they get bored.
47% play games on their mobile.
Secret Life of Indian Teens; India Today magazine dated 7th
March 2011
Signs of Adolescence
becomes more independent from family
identity of self
establishes a position in the society
becomes something and someone
learns some skill to live
Self confidence
develops a membership and position
uses and accepts body and uses it constructively
functions as a responsible person
develops according to God’s will
Problems of Adolescence
‽ Substance abuse
‽ Suicides
‽ Violence
‽ Rebellion
‽ Value conflicts
‽ Dealing with peer pressure
‽ Family pressure
‽ Gender discrimination
‽ Media pressure
ADoLeSCeNTiSiNg tHe
ADOLESCENTSBOYS
1. Acne
2. Short or tall
3. Lack of facial hair
4. Chest enlargement
5. Nocturnal emissions
6. Masturbation
7. Size of penis
8. Homosexuality
9. Pornography
10. Peer violence
GIRLS
1. Acne
2. Beauty
3. Hair on arms, legs
4. Breast size and shape
5. Vaginal discharge
6. Masturbation
7. Love, Marriage, Child
8. Lesbianism
9. Sexual abuse
10.Problem of privacy
The Individual
(Sex, Age,
Health etc)
School
Peer
Neighborhood Play
area
Church
Family
Relatives
Media
Legal
Services
systems
Neighbor
Culture
Religion
Caste
World of
Adolescents
Counseling Schedule
Early Adolescence
VISIT INTRODUCE
11 to 14
YEARS
• Family Time Together
• Peer Relationships
• Support System
• Staying Safe
• Teen Mental Health
• Conflict Resolution
Skills
• Healthy Friendship
• Gaining Independence
Counseling Schedule
Middle Adolescence
VISIT INTRODUCE
15 – 17
YEARS • Plans for the Future
• Weopons and Suicide
• Depression
• Resiliency
Early Adolescence Counseling
for Parents
What most concernsyou
about your teenager’s
safety?
What kind of activities
does your child enjoy?
How do you negotiate
rulesof behavior?
What do you think of
your teenager’sfriends?
How areyou
monitoring your
teenager?
Addressparents’ concerns
about safety whilestill
helping them encouragetheir
teen’sindependence
Early Adolescence
Counseling for Youth
Whom do you go to for
help if you’rehaving
troublein your
relationship?
What do you do to
stay safe?
What do you and your
friendsliketo do?
What after-school activities
areyou involved with?
Whom do you turn to
for adviceand
encouragement?
With independencecomesthe
responsibility for staying safe.
Middle Adolescence
Counseling for Youth
Can you get agun if you
want to?
What do you want to do
after high school
graduation?
How do you get along with
your friends?
What do you likebest
about yourself?
Do you havesomebody to
talk to when you feel sad?
Teensareliving in the
moment, but need to think
about thefuture.
Even as kids reach adolescence, they need more than ever
for us to watch over them. Adolescence is NOT about letting go.
It's about hanging on during a very bumpy ride. Ron Taffel

Adolescence

  • 1.
  • 2.
    What is Adolescence? Itis a period of hormonal adjustments It is a period of immense stress and strain It is a fascinating period . Infatuation, Love etc It is a period of discovering. Self discovery It is a period of living out It is a period of exploring
  • 3.
    The Changes thatoccur in Adolescence Cognitive Development Self concepts and self esteem Sexuality and morality Relationship with family peer and society Biological Development
  • 4.
    Adolescents in India 30%are NOT COMFORTABLE TALKING TO THEIR PARENTS about their own problems. 67% of all school students CHEAT in exam, at least once. 45% teenage girls would prefer to TERMINATE UNWANTED PREGNANCIES without telling their parents. 21% teenagers are get UNWANTED DEMANDS FOR SEXUAL ACTIVITY from stranger on the Net. 1 out of 5 is SMOKING at an alarming rate of 13 to 15 sticks a day. 65% face persisting problems to which they SEE NO SOLUTION. 1 in 2 teen NECKS and KISSES. 1 in 5 teen watches PORN before the age 13. 15% drink ALCOHOL when they get bored. 47% play games on their mobile. Secret Life of Indian Teens; India Today magazine dated 7th March 2011
  • 5.
    Signs of Adolescence becomesmore independent from family identity of self establishes a position in the society becomes something and someone learns some skill to live Self confidence develops a membership and position uses and accepts body and uses it constructively functions as a responsible person develops according to God’s will
  • 6.
    Problems of Adolescence ‽Substance abuse ‽ Suicides ‽ Violence ‽ Rebellion ‽ Value conflicts ‽ Dealing with peer pressure ‽ Family pressure ‽ Gender discrimination ‽ Media pressure
  • 7.
    ADoLeSCeNTiSiNg tHe ADOLESCENTSBOYS 1. Acne 2.Short or tall 3. Lack of facial hair 4. Chest enlargement 5. Nocturnal emissions 6. Masturbation 7. Size of penis 8. Homosexuality 9. Pornography 10. Peer violence GIRLS 1. Acne 2. Beauty 3. Hair on arms, legs 4. Breast size and shape 5. Vaginal discharge 6. Masturbation 7. Love, Marriage, Child 8. Lesbianism 9. Sexual abuse 10.Problem of privacy
  • 8.
    The Individual (Sex, Age, Healthetc) School Peer Neighborhood Play area Church Family Relatives Media Legal Services systems Neighbor Culture Religion Caste World of Adolescents
  • 9.
    Counseling Schedule Early Adolescence VISITINTRODUCE 11 to 14 YEARS • Family Time Together • Peer Relationships • Support System • Staying Safe • Teen Mental Health • Conflict Resolution Skills • Healthy Friendship • Gaining Independence
  • 10.
    Counseling Schedule Middle Adolescence VISITINTRODUCE 15 – 17 YEARS • Plans for the Future • Weopons and Suicide • Depression • Resiliency
  • 11.
    Early Adolescence Counseling forParents What most concernsyou about your teenager’s safety? What kind of activities does your child enjoy? How do you negotiate rulesof behavior? What do you think of your teenager’sfriends? How areyou monitoring your teenager? Addressparents’ concerns about safety whilestill helping them encouragetheir teen’sindependence
  • 12.
    Early Adolescence Counseling forYouth Whom do you go to for help if you’rehaving troublein your relationship? What do you do to stay safe? What do you and your friendsliketo do? What after-school activities areyou involved with? Whom do you turn to for adviceand encouragement? With independencecomesthe responsibility for staying safe.
  • 13.
    Middle Adolescence Counseling forYouth Can you get agun if you want to? What do you want to do after high school graduation? How do you get along with your friends? What do you likebest about yourself? Do you havesomebody to talk to when you feel sad? Teensareliving in the moment, but need to think about thefuture.
  • 14.
    Even as kidsreach adolescence, they need more than ever for us to watch over them. Adolescence is NOT about letting go. It's about hanging on during a very bumpy ride. Ron Taffel