Communication Skills

Improving Communication Skills Siliguri Branch of EIRC 18 July 2004 A Rahim

A Thought A man is seldom better than his conversation - German Proverb

Communication Skills Overview Effective communication skills are a critical element in your career and personal lives. We all must use a variety of communication techniques to both understand and be understood.

What is Communication? SENDER RECEIVER Feedback receiver sender Communication is the process of sending and receiving information among people… Medium Encode Decode

Most common ways to communicate Speaking Visual Images Writing Body Language

Communication Goals To change behavior To get action To ensure understanding To persuade To get and give Information

We need to improve communication... as 70 % of our communication efforts are: misunderstood misinterpreted rejected distorted or not heard 6 people talking in a 2 people conversation!! 70%

Critical success factor The majority of your perceived ability comes from how you communicate 93% of all Communication is non verbal - SKILL 38% Visual 55% Tonal 7% Verbal

Listening and Speaking are used a lot…

… But not taught enough Amount taught

Common Communication Errors: Finishing others’ sentences Preparing our response before someone has completed speaking Multitasking while ‘listening’ Filtering content or meaning based on the speaker Speaking for others (we…)

A Good Algorithm In order to have good communication: Listen to Understand Understand before speaking Speak to be understood Seek understanding before proceeding Repeat Communication is a two way process!

How can it be improved Recognition Pavlov study Not being judgmental Stop egocentric communication

What today’s workshop can achieve Provide ‘knowledge’ about communication Give insight on ‘skills’ needed Suggest ways of going about it What you need to do: Learn the tools Take up every opportunity Practice, Practice, Practice!

Observe GOD IS NOWHERE PARIS IN THE THE SPRING

Why is communication important Inspires confidence Builds respect in business and social life Helps make friends Develops a distinct personality Reveals your ability to others

Essentials of good communication Knowledge Spontaneity in conversation Level of conversation Organising your thoughts Participating in discussions Body Language Show v Tell Being a good listener Listening v hearing

How to be an active listener Set the stage Ensure mutual understanding Understand body language Suspend judgment Behaviors that hinder effective listening Act distracted (look at your watch!) Tell your own story without acknowledging theirs Give no response Invalidate response, be negative Interrupt Criticize

Techniques to improve listening skills PARAPHRASE Restate what was said in your own words SUMMARIZE Pull together the main points of a speaker QUESTION Challenge speaker to think further, clarifying both your and their understanding

Two basic types of questions Closed questions: G et a one-word response and inhibit thought. Questions begin with who , when and which Open-ended questions: Invite unique thought, reflection or an explanation. Questions begin with how , what and how come (not why !).

Practice Questioning Rephrase the following closed questions to make them open-ended: Are you feeling tired? Isn’t it a nice day? Was the last activity useful? Is there anything bothering you? So everything is fine, then?

Adding colour to communication

Adding colour to communication Images – Describe, relive Show, don’t tell Use audience’s senses Sight Sound Touch Taste Smell

Improving communication Don’t use cliches Brevity Sincerity Don’t praise yourself Avoid argument Be tactful Silence Enunciation Clear, loud, syllables. Flexibility of tone

Practice For distinct enunciation, every word, every syllable, every sound, must be given it proper form and value. Think of the mouth chamber as a mold, in which the correct form is given to every sound. Will you please move your lips more noticeably? The teeth should never be kept closed in speech. Through practices, we can learn to speak more rapidly, but still with perfect distinctness

Ways to gain effective conversation Good use of English – avoid errors Improved vocabulary – overlook v oversee Avoid old phrases Use humour Add interesting story Improve clarity of voice – practice

What does the graphic tell you about this speaker

The 5-P‘s P rior P reparation P revents P oor P erformance

From effective conversation to speech Overcoming Fear #1 fear Idea of speech Know your subject Know the audience Target their interest Organising the speech Tell them…

Developing Your Presentation What is your goal? Research your topic Develop an outline Create or locate learning aids

AIDA AIDA ttention nterest esire ction POWERFUL opener CLEAR connector MAIN BODY POWERFUL close

AIDA AIDA ttention nterest esire ction Establish credentials (Me, You, What) Key point Create +ve expectations Paint the future benefits WIFM The facts    Me, You, What is required The facts  3  advantages  benefits

Developing Your Presentation Making the Presentation Interesting Informative Fun Variety Energy Audience Interaction

Practicing Your Presentation Simulate the presentation setting Practice aloud Practice standing up Time your presentation Memorize your opening few sentences Watch yourself in a mirror

Presenting Stage fright Feelings follow action Talk ‘to’, not ‘at’ Eye contact Don’t judge your audience Pause Volume Pace

Summary He who fails to prepare, prepares to fail!

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