Conquering Fears of
Speaking in Public
Common Public Speaking
Fears
• Boring the audience to sleep
• Burping uncontrollably
• Teeth chattering
• People laughing at them
• Tripping on the way up to the stage
• Others?
10 Steps to Reduce
Speaking Fears
1. Know the Room
• Arrive early and walk around the room.
• Stand up front by lectern or podium.
• Test out the microphone if using one.
• Walk around where the audience will be
seated.
• Walk from where you will be seated to
the place where you will be speaking.
2. Know the Audience
• Try to greet some of the audience and
chat with them.
• Friends are easier to talk to than a
group of strangers.
3. Know Your Material
• Speak about things you know or that
interest you.
• Study your material until you know it.
• Practice your speech.
4. Learn How to Relax
• Sit comfortably with your back straight.
• Breathe in slowly, hold your breath for 4
to 5 seconds, and then slowly exhale.
• To relax your facial muscles, open your
mouth wide and eyes wide, and then
close them tightly. Pause and open
them again.
5. Visualize Yourself
Speaking
• Imagine yourself walking confidently to
the lectern.
• Imagine yourself speaking, your voice
loud, clear, and assured.
• When you visualize yourself as
successful, you will be successful.
6. Realize People Want You
to Succeed
• Audiences want speakers to be
interesting, informative, and
entertaining.
• They want you to succeed, not to fail.
7. Don't Apologize for
Being Nervous
• Most nervousness does not show.
• If you don't say anything, nobody may
notice.
8. Concentrate on Your
Message
• Your nervous feelings will ease as you
focus your attention away from your
fears.
• Concentrate on your message and your
audience, not yourself.
9. Turn Nervousness into
Positive Energy
• The same nervous energy that causes
stage fright can be an asset to you.
• Transform this energy into vitality and
enthusiasm in delivering your speech.
10. Gain Experience
• Experience builds confidence and
reduces anxieties.
• Volunteer to speak when possible to
build your confidence.
Meeting Roll Call
• As the roll is read, have each member
stand and give an audible response to a
question.
• Options to consider
– What is your favorite 4-H project?
– What is your favorite dessert?
– What do you like best about 4-H?
Demonstrations &
Illustrated Talks
Demonstrations and
illustrated talks can help
members
• Gain self-confidence,
• Learn to speak before a group,
• Increase knowledge about a project,
• Develop leadership skills,
• Learn to organize materials in a logical
sequence, and
• Develop skill in putting words and actions
together.

Conquering fearsofspeakinginpublic

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  • 2.
    Common Public Speaking Fears •Boring the audience to sleep • Burping uncontrollably • Teeth chattering • People laughing at them • Tripping on the way up to the stage • Others?
  • 3.
    10 Steps toReduce Speaking Fears
  • 4.
    1. Know theRoom • Arrive early and walk around the room. • Stand up front by lectern or podium. • Test out the microphone if using one. • Walk around where the audience will be seated. • Walk from where you will be seated to the place where you will be speaking.
  • 5.
    2. Know theAudience • Try to greet some of the audience and chat with them. • Friends are easier to talk to than a group of strangers.
  • 6.
    3. Know YourMaterial • Speak about things you know or that interest you. • Study your material until you know it. • Practice your speech.
  • 7.
    4. Learn Howto Relax • Sit comfortably with your back straight. • Breathe in slowly, hold your breath for 4 to 5 seconds, and then slowly exhale. • To relax your facial muscles, open your mouth wide and eyes wide, and then close them tightly. Pause and open them again.
  • 8.
    5. Visualize Yourself Speaking •Imagine yourself walking confidently to the lectern. • Imagine yourself speaking, your voice loud, clear, and assured. • When you visualize yourself as successful, you will be successful.
  • 9.
    6. Realize PeopleWant You to Succeed • Audiences want speakers to be interesting, informative, and entertaining. • They want you to succeed, not to fail.
  • 10.
    7. Don't Apologizefor Being Nervous • Most nervousness does not show. • If you don't say anything, nobody may notice.
  • 11.
    8. Concentrate onYour Message • Your nervous feelings will ease as you focus your attention away from your fears. • Concentrate on your message and your audience, not yourself.
  • 12.
    9. Turn Nervousnessinto Positive Energy • The same nervous energy that causes stage fright can be an asset to you. • Transform this energy into vitality and enthusiasm in delivering your speech.
  • 13.
    10. Gain Experience •Experience builds confidence and reduces anxieties. • Volunteer to speak when possible to build your confidence.
  • 14.
    Meeting Roll Call •As the roll is read, have each member stand and give an audible response to a question. • Options to consider – What is your favorite 4-H project? – What is your favorite dessert? – What do you like best about 4-H?
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  • 16.
    Demonstrations and illustrated talkscan help members • Gain self-confidence, • Learn to speak before a group, • Increase knowledge about a project, • Develop leadership skills, • Learn to organize materials in a logical sequence, and • Develop skill in putting words and actions together.