Critical Conversations Made Simple
Solve Your Pressing Problems NOW!
Diane Windingland
For the Houston Apartment Association
May 14, 2015
Everything is great, right?
• Rents up 5.2% in first quarter
• Houston is #7 out of 79 metro areas
• Exploding job growth
• More wanting to rent rather than buy
The Multi-Family Industry is
Not-So-
Houston, we have a problem!
Critical
Conversations
• Office Staff
• Maintenance
• Suppliers
• Management
• Residents
Critical Conversations
Critical Conversations Made Simple
Pre-Emptive: Manage Expectations
Happiness = Reality - Expectations
--Tom Magliozzi
Pre-Emptive: Manage Expectations
Property Management is Easy
But People Management is Crazy
Stephanie Graves and Julie Marie Irvin
Grumpy happens . . .
The First Step in a Critical Conversation is to realize that there are different
perspectives
It can be a matter of perspective . . .
The ETest
All
Knowledge
Diane’s Mickey Mouse Theory
All
Knowledge
What
You Know
All
Knowledge
What
You Know
What
They Know
All
Knowledge
Your
Interp.
What
You Know
Other
Person’s
Interp.
What
They Know
What
I Knew
My
Interp.
All
Knowledge
What
I Knew
My
Interp.
What
MIL Knew
MIL’s
Interp.
All
Knowledge
LEAPinto Critical Conversations
•Listen
•Empathize
•Agree
•Partner
Listen
• Listen w/o defending
• Reflect back
• Paraphrase
• Summarize
• Clarify
“So, what I hear you
saying is . . .”
• Open Body Language
Listening is not just waiting
for your turn to talk
Empathize
• Trade places, mentally
• Acknowledge feelings
• Share similar story
• Caring expression
Empathize: Listen from Your Heart
Agree
• On Common Ground
• On the Problem
Agree— “Yes, and . . .”
Partner
• Not “You vs. Me”
• “We vs. the Problem”
LEAPinto Critical Conversations
•Listen
•Empathize
•Agree
•Partner
Partner Solutions: LEAP
• Mgmt vs. Staff
• Staff vs. Resident
• Mgmt vs. Maintenance
• Other . . .
Critical Conversations Made Simple

Critical conversations:Houston Apartment Association (2015-05-14)