The document outlines five common mistakes in conducting Software Failure Modes and Effects Analysis (FMECA) that can hinder its effectiveness: analyzing software as a black box, assuming the software will work perfectly, conducting FMECA too late in development, not analyzing at the appropriate level of abstraction, and failing to consider common failure modes. It emphasizes that software should be analyzed based on functionality, that unwritten assumptions can lead to significant failures, and the FMECA should be done early to influence requirements and design. Effective FMECA should focus on the requirements and use cases to avoid critical oversights in software behavior.