Networking & Negotiating
Matthew L. Eisenhard, Psy.D.
Week 10: Psychology for Business & Industry
Networking
• The ongoing process of
building interconnected
relationships.
▫ Purpose is for politicking and socializing.
• Networks are:
▫ Clusters of people joined together by a variety of
links.
▫ Primary and secondary connections.
Networking Objectives
• To get a job – or a different one.
• To perform better at your current job.
• To advance in your organization.
• To stay current in your field.
• To maintain mobility.
• To develop and
maintain relationships
– professional and
personal.
Networking Process
• Self-assessment exercise 10.1.
• Five basic tasks:
1. Perform a self-assessment and set goals.
2. Create a one minute self-sell.
3. Develop a network.
4. Conduct networking
interviews.
5. Maintain the network.
Self-Assessment & Setting Objectives
• Helps clarify your skills, competencies, and
knowledge.
• Gives insight to what is important to you.
▫ Accomplishments
 Write down at least 2 to 3 that define your skills and
abilities – include in your resume.
▫ Tying accomplishments to job interview
 When asked to describe yourself, use the
accomplishments statement in your resume.
▫ Set networking objectives
 Clearly set goals – break it down into specific tasks.
Your One Minute Self-Sell
• An opening statement used in networking that
quickly summarizes your history and career plan
and asks a question.
▫ Should be 60 seconds or less.
▫ Be concise – clear – compelling.
▫ Outline
 History
 Summary of highlights of your career to date.
 Plans
 What you are seeking – be specific.
 Question
 Ask question to open two-way communication.
Develop Your Network
• Start with primary contacts – people you know.
▫ Document these contacts.
• Ask for secondary contacts – keep growing the
list.
▫ Include people you do not know.
▫ Get involved with the community – clubs,
organizations, volunteer work, etc.
▫ Meet and greet.
 Use the one minute self-sell.
PSY 126 Week 10: Networking & Negotiating
Networking Interviews
• Informational interviews are
designed to help learn specifics
about your field of interest.
▫ Can be a phone call.
 Better if face to face.
▫ Ask for 15-20 minutes of their time.
▫ Most people are willing to help you.
 Do not go over your allotted time – unless asked to
stay.
 Leave business cards and resumes.
Networking Interview Process
• Establish rapport.
▫ Praise and read the person.
▫ Thank them for their time.
▫ State your purpose clearly.
• Deliver your one minute self-sell.
▫ Even if it is a repeat – it leads into
your questions.
• Ask prepared questions.
▫ Have a short list of concise and relevant questions.
• Get additional contacts.
▫ Always ask for names of other people to contact.
• Ask how you can be of help to them.
▫ Or better yet bring something that may interest them – reciprocity.
• Follow-up with thank you note and status report.
▫ Good idea to document meetings and follow-up calls.
Maintaining & Coalitions
• Keep everyone in your network informed of your
progress and status.
▫ If someone was particularly helpful, let them
know.
• Always continue to grow and update your
network.
• A coalition is a short-term network used to meet
a specific goal.
▫ Use it to help you influence the people in power
that you need to further your aspirations.
Digital Networking
• Follow the same rules as
in-person networking.
• Think about using
LinkedIn for business
networking.
▫ Businesses are using
social networking to
increase their business.
▫ Follow the company
policies about using work
hours for networking,
social or otherwise.
Negotiating
• Process in which two or more parties have something
the other wants.
▫ An attempt to come to an exchange agreement.
▫ It is also called bargaining.
• Power, influence tactics, &
politics can all be used in
the negotiating process.
• Self-assessment 10.2
examines your negotiating
skills.
When & Where?
• We negotiate when there is
a conflict of interests.
▫ Union bargaining (others
bargain for us).
▫ Accepting a job.
▫ Getting a raise.
• If there is no set price or “wiggle” room, then no
negotiation/bargaining can/will take place.
▫ Can you name some acceptable and unacceptable
times and places?
Two Negotiating Strategies
• Distributive Bargaining
▫ Negotiating over shares of a fixed pie.
▫ Creating win-lose situations.
▫ Zero-sum game = any gain made at another party’s expense.
• Integrative Bargaining
▫ Negotiating to give everyone a good deal.
▫ Creating win-win situations.
▫ Trust is a major factor.
 Must be open, honest, and flexible.
 The “good deal policy.”
▫ Good negotiating skills can be learned – and are in high
demand.
 Good leaders are good negotiators.
Process of Negotiating
• 3, maybe 4 steps.
1. Plan
2. Bargain
3. Maybe a
postponement
4. Agreement – or
no agreement.
The Plan
• Success or failure depends on a good plan.
▫ Research the other party.
 Know your opponent well.
▫ Set goals.
 Have a specific target and be willing to walk away unless you get it.
 Open with something higher that what you will settle for.
▫ Anticipate questions and objections from your opponent.
 Be ready to answer everything that could possibly come up from them.
▫ Develop options and trade-offs.
 If you have to give up something, be ready to ask for something in
return.
PSY 126 Week 10: Networking & Negotiating
The Bargaining
• Develop rapport.
▫ Read the other person.
▫ Focus on obstacles.
▫ Never attack the other person on a personal level – no name
calling allowed.
• Let the other party make the first offer.
▫ Use this as a starting point.
• Listen and ask questions about the other party’s needs.
▫ Remember people want control and respect.
• Do not move too fast.
▫ Ask for something in return.
▫ Do not look desperate or intimidated.
▫ Make the first concession (it makes them feel obligated), but do
not make unilateral concessions.
PSY 126 Week 10: Networking & Negotiating
To Postpone or Not?
• Honesty and integrity are imperative for a good
negotiator.
• Do not create a sense of urgency.
▫ Unless it is really true.
• Know when to pressure and when to let it go.
▫ Sometimes agreeing to let
▫ someone sleep on it may be best.
▫ You need to read between the
lines, read the nonverbals.
Agreement or Not
• Everyone agrees on the terms.
▫ Or… no agreement can be made.
• If an impasse is met, consider bringing in a 3rd
party or mediator.
▫ Difference between good and not so good
negotiators is how they respond to failure.
 Learn from your mistakes.
 Maintain your enthusiasm.
 Maintain your optimism.
 Come back another day.
Networking and Negotiating Globally
• Be alert to cultural differences.
• Variations for global negotiating:
▫ Time to reach an agreement.
▫ Focus on relationships versus task.
▫ Use of power tactics.
▫ Verbal and nonverbal communication.
▫ Correct greetings and rituals.
Global Negotiating Examples
• Israeli’s like a good argument.
• Japanese prefer being civil.
• French like to take their time and like conflict.
• Chinese like to drag things out.
• Americans and impatient and want quick results.
• Japanese and Chinese expect to exchange gifts.
• Russians view concessions as a sign of weakness.
• Japanese expect to do business over dinner and drinks.
• Islamic cultures ban alcohol.
Influencing Process
Main Points
• Networking process
• Create your own “one-minute self-sell”
• Negotiating “let’s make a deal”

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PSY 126 Week 10: Networking & Negotiating

  • 1. Networking & Negotiating Matthew L. Eisenhard, Psy.D. Week 10: Psychology for Business & Industry
  • 2. Networking • The ongoing process of building interconnected relationships. ▫ Purpose is for politicking and socializing. • Networks are: ▫ Clusters of people joined together by a variety of links. ▫ Primary and secondary connections.
  • 3. Networking Objectives • To get a job – or a different one. • To perform better at your current job. • To advance in your organization. • To stay current in your field. • To maintain mobility. • To develop and maintain relationships – professional and personal.
  • 4. Networking Process • Self-assessment exercise 10.1. • Five basic tasks: 1. Perform a self-assessment and set goals. 2. Create a one minute self-sell. 3. Develop a network. 4. Conduct networking interviews. 5. Maintain the network.
  • 5. Self-Assessment & Setting Objectives • Helps clarify your skills, competencies, and knowledge. • Gives insight to what is important to you. ▫ Accomplishments  Write down at least 2 to 3 that define your skills and abilities – include in your resume. ▫ Tying accomplishments to job interview  When asked to describe yourself, use the accomplishments statement in your resume. ▫ Set networking objectives  Clearly set goals – break it down into specific tasks.
  • 6. Your One Minute Self-Sell • An opening statement used in networking that quickly summarizes your history and career plan and asks a question. ▫ Should be 60 seconds or less. ▫ Be concise – clear – compelling. ▫ Outline  History  Summary of highlights of your career to date.  Plans  What you are seeking – be specific.  Question  Ask question to open two-way communication.
  • 7. Develop Your Network • Start with primary contacts – people you know. ▫ Document these contacts. • Ask for secondary contacts – keep growing the list. ▫ Include people you do not know. ▫ Get involved with the community – clubs, organizations, volunteer work, etc. ▫ Meet and greet.  Use the one minute self-sell.
  • 9. Networking Interviews • Informational interviews are designed to help learn specifics about your field of interest. ▫ Can be a phone call.  Better if face to face. ▫ Ask for 15-20 minutes of their time. ▫ Most people are willing to help you.  Do not go over your allotted time – unless asked to stay.  Leave business cards and resumes.
  • 10. Networking Interview Process • Establish rapport. ▫ Praise and read the person. ▫ Thank them for their time. ▫ State your purpose clearly. • Deliver your one minute self-sell. ▫ Even if it is a repeat – it leads into your questions. • Ask prepared questions. ▫ Have a short list of concise and relevant questions. • Get additional contacts. ▫ Always ask for names of other people to contact. • Ask how you can be of help to them. ▫ Or better yet bring something that may interest them – reciprocity. • Follow-up with thank you note and status report. ▫ Good idea to document meetings and follow-up calls.
  • 11. Maintaining & Coalitions • Keep everyone in your network informed of your progress and status. ▫ If someone was particularly helpful, let them know. • Always continue to grow and update your network. • A coalition is a short-term network used to meet a specific goal. ▫ Use it to help you influence the people in power that you need to further your aspirations.
  • 12. Digital Networking • Follow the same rules as in-person networking. • Think about using LinkedIn for business networking. ▫ Businesses are using social networking to increase their business. ▫ Follow the company policies about using work hours for networking, social or otherwise.
  • 13. Negotiating • Process in which two or more parties have something the other wants. ▫ An attempt to come to an exchange agreement. ▫ It is also called bargaining. • Power, influence tactics, & politics can all be used in the negotiating process. • Self-assessment 10.2 examines your negotiating skills.
  • 14. When & Where? • We negotiate when there is a conflict of interests. ▫ Union bargaining (others bargain for us). ▫ Accepting a job. ▫ Getting a raise. • If there is no set price or “wiggle” room, then no negotiation/bargaining can/will take place. ▫ Can you name some acceptable and unacceptable times and places?
  • 15. Two Negotiating Strategies • Distributive Bargaining ▫ Negotiating over shares of a fixed pie. ▫ Creating win-lose situations. ▫ Zero-sum game = any gain made at another party’s expense. • Integrative Bargaining ▫ Negotiating to give everyone a good deal. ▫ Creating win-win situations. ▫ Trust is a major factor.  Must be open, honest, and flexible.  The “good deal policy.” ▫ Good negotiating skills can be learned – and are in high demand.  Good leaders are good negotiators.
  • 16. Process of Negotiating • 3, maybe 4 steps. 1. Plan 2. Bargain 3. Maybe a postponement 4. Agreement – or no agreement.
  • 17. The Plan • Success or failure depends on a good plan. ▫ Research the other party.  Know your opponent well. ▫ Set goals.  Have a specific target and be willing to walk away unless you get it.  Open with something higher that what you will settle for. ▫ Anticipate questions and objections from your opponent.  Be ready to answer everything that could possibly come up from them. ▫ Develop options and trade-offs.  If you have to give up something, be ready to ask for something in return.
  • 19. The Bargaining • Develop rapport. ▫ Read the other person. ▫ Focus on obstacles. ▫ Never attack the other person on a personal level – no name calling allowed. • Let the other party make the first offer. ▫ Use this as a starting point. • Listen and ask questions about the other party’s needs. ▫ Remember people want control and respect. • Do not move too fast. ▫ Ask for something in return. ▫ Do not look desperate or intimidated. ▫ Make the first concession (it makes them feel obligated), but do not make unilateral concessions.
  • 21. To Postpone or Not? • Honesty and integrity are imperative for a good negotiator. • Do not create a sense of urgency. ▫ Unless it is really true. • Know when to pressure and when to let it go. ▫ Sometimes agreeing to let ▫ someone sleep on it may be best. ▫ You need to read between the lines, read the nonverbals.
  • 22. Agreement or Not • Everyone agrees on the terms. ▫ Or… no agreement can be made. • If an impasse is met, consider bringing in a 3rd party or mediator. ▫ Difference between good and not so good negotiators is how they respond to failure.  Learn from your mistakes.  Maintain your enthusiasm.  Maintain your optimism.  Come back another day.
  • 23. Networking and Negotiating Globally • Be alert to cultural differences. • Variations for global negotiating: ▫ Time to reach an agreement. ▫ Focus on relationships versus task. ▫ Use of power tactics. ▫ Verbal and nonverbal communication. ▫ Correct greetings and rituals.
  • 24. Global Negotiating Examples • Israeli’s like a good argument. • Japanese prefer being civil. • French like to take their time and like conflict. • Chinese like to drag things out. • Americans and impatient and want quick results. • Japanese and Chinese expect to exchange gifts. • Russians view concessions as a sign of weakness. • Japanese expect to do business over dinner and drinks. • Islamic cultures ban alcohol.
  • 26. Main Points • Networking process • Create your own “one-minute self-sell” • Negotiating “let’s make a deal”