Self

1. The Development of the Self
2. Evaluating the Self
3. Picking an Occupation
• How we see & evaluate ourselves over the
  lifespan.
• How we go about choosing our life’s work.
• Developing positive & negative self-view.
• Social comparison & self-view.
• Work & identity.
• Why we work.
• Choosing a career.
• Problems of work & self.
1. The Development of the Self
• We are not born with a sense of self it is a
  learned concept.
• self-awareness- knowledge of oneself.
• Rouge Test: red makeup on a baby’s
  forehead, placed in front of a mirror.
• 17-24 months onset of recognition of self.
  (Gallup, 1977).
• Culture affects age of self-recognition.
• Greece- autonomy emphasized, early onset.
• Cameroon- interdependent, later onset
  (Keller et al., 2004).
• Theory of Mind
• An infant’s perspective of the mental lives of
  others—and themselves.
• First distinction is that other people are capable of
  compliance to one’s desires.

• Infants begin to realize
• Intentionality & causality (meaning in the actions
  of others).
       OTHERS AS COMPLIANT AGENTS
• By 2 years old infants demonstrate empathy.
• At 24 months, infants can show concern &
  comfort others.

• 1 year-olds can identify emotional cues of person
  on TV.
• When pre-school age children are asked what
  makes them different from others they give
  physical answers,”I’m a good runner” .
• Children’s self-concept are unrealistic, they
  overestimate their skills & knowledge. They
  expect to win every game they play, view
  the future as a great success.
• Culture & Self-Concept
• Collectivist orientation of the self-
  responsibility to others
• Identity based on fitting in.
• Individualistic orientation of the self-
  competitive & self-concerned
• Identity based on standing out.
• captivation-in-an-acceptedness- not overtly
  learned, but absorbed through the structure
  of the culture (Husserl).
• Self-concept, attitude toward gender, race,
  & ethnicity
• gender- sense of maleness or femaleness
• Established by the preschool years.
• Personal & academic self-view

•   Personal self-view
•   1. looks
•   2. peer relations
•   3. physical ability

•   Academic self-view
•   1. English
•   2. Math
•   3. nonacademic (music & art)
• ADOLESCENCE
• Erikson: Identity versus role confusion
• Adolescents typically describe how they
  think others view them (Harter, 1990).
• Struggle between ideal self & real self
  (Adler).
• racial awareness in pre-school age. 3-4
  years
• meaning attribution to physical features
  comes later. (arbitrary good/bad, us/them)
• race dissonance- preferring characteristics
  of centralized other.
• Minority/Majority –versus-
  centralized/marginalized
• 90% of African-American children showed
  preference for lighter skinned images
  (Holland, 1994).
• Ethnic Identity emerges later than racial
  identity (Bernal, 1994).
•   MIDDLE CHILDHOOD & ADOLESCENCE
•   Middle childhood actively seeking, “who am I?”
•   Erikson Industry vs. Inferiority
•   self-view shifts from physical characteristics to
    psychological sense.
• Personal & academic self-view

•   Personal self-view
•   1. looks
•   2. peer relations
•   3. physical ability

•   Academic self-view
•   1. English
•   2. Math
•   3. nonacademic (music & art)
• ADOLESCENCE
• Erikson: Identity versus role confusion
• Adolescents typically describe how they think
  others view them (Harter, 1990).

• Struggle between ideal self & real self (Adler).

• Friends & peers become increasingly important.
• psychological moratorium- (Erikson) taking
  time off to explore and find oneself.
• Marcia’s elaboration on Erikson’s Identity
  versus Role Confusion
• An adolescent can be focused on crisis
  (choosing between) or commitment
  (investing in an ideology).

• Marcia views commitment as healthful.
• Marcia’s 4 categoris of identity
• 1. identity achievement -decided on a self, passed
  through alternatives.
• 2. identity foreclosure- committed to an identity
  without crisis of alternatives.
• 3. moratorium- not decided on a self
• 4. identity diffusion- not exploring or committing
  to a sense of self.
• ADULTHOOD
  Life events shape & reshape sense of self in
  adulthood
• marriage, love, hate, divorce, health, death,
  economy, profession, education, regret,
  children
• social clock- culture-specific, sense of “should” in
  adult life.
• milestones measured against others & cultural
  norms.
• 20s, middle class: education, career, marriage,
  family.
• Women’s social clocks- family social clock, career
  social clock, or individualistic social clock.
  (Helson, 1960s-2006)
• Women assessed at 21, 27, & 43 (Helson)
  become more disciplined & committed to
  their pursuits. Greater independence, &
  cope with stress and adversity more
  effectively.
• Traditional feminine behavior (21-27) find
  a spouse, have a child (Helson).
• For women, it is not which path is pursued,
  but rather, how dedicated to their pursuit
  that determines contentedness in adulthood.
• Work & adult sense of self.
• Career consolidation (Valliant, 1930s)- (20-40
  years) centered on careers.
• 20s influenced by parent’s authority
• 30s greater autonomy with own family & career
• Typically hard workers, rule-followers,
  conforming to professional norms.

• Erikson- Intimacy versus isolation
• 2. Evaluating the Self
• Self-esteem- overall positive & negative
  self-evaluation
• Emotionally oriented
• How do I measure up to others & the
  standards of society?
• Internal standard of success (ideal self)
  Adler.
• Middle childhood & adolescence- different
  self-esteems (academic, physical, social,
  athletic, musical).

• Adult self-esteem- how we manage the
  transition from being cared for to being
  caretakers.
• Race & self esteem
• Clark & Clark (1947) lower self-esteem
  amongst minority groups.
• A shift in adulthood with a sense of pride in
  ethnicity.
• Social Identity Theory- members of a
  minority group will only accept negative
  views if they have a sense that it is
  impossible to change the situation.
• Gender differences & self-esteem
• Adolescence- girls have lower self esteem
  than boys (Watkins et al., 1997)
• Girls more concerned with physical
  appearance at this age.
• Boys focus on rejection from females &
  athletic prowess.
• Socio Economic Status & self-esteem
• Typically lower SES is correlated with
  lower self-esteem in adolescents.
• Social Comparison- comparing our abilities
  to that of others (Leon Festinger, 1954)
• We compare ourselves mostly to those who
  share our qualities (age, gender, etc…)
• Downward Social Comparison- self-esteem
  enhanced through comparing to those less
  competent in an area.
Erich Fromm
To Have or To Be?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o7GpHrdXOFI

Self lecture giobbi

  • 1.
    Self 1. The Developmentof the Self 2. Evaluating the Self 3. Picking an Occupation
  • 2.
    • How wesee & evaluate ourselves over the lifespan. • How we go about choosing our life’s work. • Developing positive & negative self-view. • Social comparison & self-view. • Work & identity. • Why we work. • Choosing a career. • Problems of work & self.
  • 3.
    1. The Developmentof the Self
  • 4.
    • We arenot born with a sense of self it is a learned concept. • self-awareness- knowledge of oneself.
  • 5.
    • Rouge Test:red makeup on a baby’s forehead, placed in front of a mirror. • 17-24 months onset of recognition of self. (Gallup, 1977).
  • 6.
    • Culture affectsage of self-recognition. • Greece- autonomy emphasized, early onset. • Cameroon- interdependent, later onset (Keller et al., 2004).
  • 7.
    • Theory ofMind • An infant’s perspective of the mental lives of others—and themselves. • First distinction is that other people are capable of compliance to one’s desires. • Infants begin to realize • Intentionality & causality (meaning in the actions of others). OTHERS AS COMPLIANT AGENTS
  • 8.
    • By 2years old infants demonstrate empathy. • At 24 months, infants can show concern & comfort others. • 1 year-olds can identify emotional cues of person on TV. • When pre-school age children are asked what makes them different from others they give physical answers,”I’m a good runner” .
  • 9.
    • Children’s self-conceptare unrealistic, they overestimate their skills & knowledge. They expect to win every game they play, view the future as a great success.
  • 10.
    • Culture &Self-Concept • Collectivist orientation of the self- responsibility to others • Identity based on fitting in.
  • 11.
    • Individualistic orientationof the self- competitive & self-concerned • Identity based on standing out. • captivation-in-an-acceptedness- not overtly learned, but absorbed through the structure of the culture (Husserl).
  • 12.
    • Self-concept, attitudetoward gender, race, & ethnicity • gender- sense of maleness or femaleness • Established by the preschool years.
  • 13.
    • Personal &academic self-view • Personal self-view • 1. looks • 2. peer relations • 3. physical ability • Academic self-view • 1. English • 2. Math • 3. nonacademic (music & art)
  • 14.
    • ADOLESCENCE • Erikson:Identity versus role confusion • Adolescents typically describe how they think others view them (Harter, 1990).
  • 15.
    • Struggle betweenideal self & real self (Adler).
  • 18.
    • racial awarenessin pre-school age. 3-4 years • meaning attribution to physical features comes later. (arbitrary good/bad, us/them) • race dissonance- preferring characteristics of centralized other.
  • 19.
    • Minority/Majority –versus- centralized/marginalized • 90% of African-American children showed preference for lighter skinned images (Holland, 1994). • Ethnic Identity emerges later than racial identity (Bernal, 1994).
  • 20.
    MIDDLE CHILDHOOD & ADOLESCENCE • Middle childhood actively seeking, “who am I?” • Erikson Industry vs. Inferiority • self-view shifts from physical characteristics to psychological sense.
  • 21.
    • Personal &academic self-view • Personal self-view • 1. looks • 2. peer relations • 3. physical ability • Academic self-view • 1. English • 2. Math • 3. nonacademic (music & art)
  • 22.
    • ADOLESCENCE • Erikson:Identity versus role confusion • Adolescents typically describe how they think others view them (Harter, 1990). • Struggle between ideal self & real self (Adler). • Friends & peers become increasingly important.
  • 23.
    • psychological moratorium-(Erikson) taking time off to explore and find oneself.
  • 24.
    • Marcia’s elaborationon Erikson’s Identity versus Role Confusion • An adolescent can be focused on crisis (choosing between) or commitment (investing in an ideology). • Marcia views commitment as healthful.
  • 25.
    • Marcia’s 4categoris of identity • 1. identity achievement -decided on a self, passed through alternatives. • 2. identity foreclosure- committed to an identity without crisis of alternatives. • 3. moratorium- not decided on a self • 4. identity diffusion- not exploring or committing to a sense of self.
  • 26.
    • ADULTHOOD Life events shape & reshape sense of self in adulthood • marriage, love, hate, divorce, health, death, economy, profession, education, regret, children
  • 27.
    • social clock-culture-specific, sense of “should” in adult life. • milestones measured against others & cultural norms. • 20s, middle class: education, career, marriage, family. • Women’s social clocks- family social clock, career social clock, or individualistic social clock. (Helson, 1960s-2006)
  • 28.
    • Women assessedat 21, 27, & 43 (Helson) become more disciplined & committed to their pursuits. Greater independence, & cope with stress and adversity more effectively.
  • 29.
    • Traditional femininebehavior (21-27) find a spouse, have a child (Helson). • For women, it is not which path is pursued, but rather, how dedicated to their pursuit that determines contentedness in adulthood.
  • 30.
    • Work &adult sense of self. • Career consolidation (Valliant, 1930s)- (20-40 years) centered on careers. • 20s influenced by parent’s authority • 30s greater autonomy with own family & career • Typically hard workers, rule-followers, conforming to professional norms. • Erikson- Intimacy versus isolation
  • 31.
    • 2. Evaluatingthe Self • Self-esteem- overall positive & negative self-evaluation • Emotionally oriented
  • 32.
    • How doI measure up to others & the standards of society?
  • 33.
    • Internal standardof success (ideal self) Adler.
  • 34.
    • Middle childhood& adolescence- different self-esteems (academic, physical, social, athletic, musical). • Adult self-esteem- how we manage the transition from being cared for to being caretakers.
  • 35.
    • Race &self esteem • Clark & Clark (1947) lower self-esteem amongst minority groups. • A shift in adulthood with a sense of pride in ethnicity.
  • 36.
    • Social IdentityTheory- members of a minority group will only accept negative views if they have a sense that it is impossible to change the situation.
  • 37.
    • Gender differences& self-esteem • Adolescence- girls have lower self esteem than boys (Watkins et al., 1997) • Girls more concerned with physical appearance at this age. • Boys focus on rejection from females & athletic prowess.
  • 38.
    • Socio EconomicStatus & self-esteem • Typically lower SES is correlated with lower self-esteem in adolescents.
  • 39.
    • Social Comparison-comparing our abilities to that of others (Leon Festinger, 1954) • We compare ourselves mostly to those who share our qualities (age, gender, etc…)
  • 40.
    • Downward SocialComparison- self-esteem enhanced through comparing to those less competent in an area.
  • 41.
    Erich Fromm To Haveor To Be? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o7GpHrdXOFI