The 7 habits of highly spiritual people
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Highly spiritual people tend to give rather than take, say yes more than no, and see possibilities instead of problems. They empathize with others by trying to understand their perspectives. Rather than focusing on major life events, they appreciate small daily blessings and find wonder in tiny details. They generously give compliments and accept them with humility. Their spirituality is not confined to places of worship; they can find meaning anywhere, including in nature. Overall, highly spiritual people tend to have a positive, grateful, and joyful outlook on life.
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- 1. The 7 Habits Of Highly Spiritual PeoplePerry GarfinkelVeteran journalistEdited ByYoussef Ishak
- 2. 1- Highly Spiritual People Give Rather Than Take.
- 3. To give is indeed divine. Some research on altruism suggests people commit selfless deeds precisely because such acts make them feel good, therefore refuting the notion of selflessness. Nonsense. Is breathing selfish? If we didn't give, and give generously, we'd die. I really believe that. Giving is human nature; it's just that we forget our own Spirit-Nature sometimes. Giving can take many forms; simply paying attention to someone is a gift.
- 4. 2- They Say Yes More Than They Say No.
- 5. Pessimists are a downer. "No" closes our hearts like cholesterol. (Naturally, this excludes saying "No" to drugs or other self-destructive, noxious or illegal behaviors.) "Yes" affirms life. Peoplealways would rather hear yes rather no. Unless it's when you ask your doctor, "Do I have cancer?"
- 6. 3- They See Possibilities, Not Problems.
- 7. As Shunryu Suzuki writes: "In the beginner's mind there are many possibilities; in the expert's mind there are few." Spiritual people are optimists. They believe in belief. They are the lemon-to-lemonade folks, the problems-as-opportunites advocates, the positive spin Masters.
- 8. 4- They Walk A Mile in Your Shoes.
- 9. They understand that empathy means feeling another's pain but not so much that they take on others' pain and become another's pain. With that empathy, they tend to know exactly what to say or do for you to make you feel better. In gratitude, we say to them, "You are a saint." Even when we do not mean it literally, it is true -- literally.
- 10. 5- They Count Blessings in Small Wonders.
- 11. They do not expect Spirit to appear accompanied by fire and brimstone and a big neon sign flashing in the sky. They are not waiting for the Big A-ha. Nor are they waiting for the cure to cancer, the job promotion, or the love of a lifetime. They appreciate the tiny details: the smile of a child, the sparkle in an old person's eyes, the morning's first ray of sunlight. While others have recommended not to sweat the bad small stuff, spiritual people savor the good small stuff.
- 12. 6- They Give Compliments Generously, Accept Them with Humility.
- 13. There is no limit to people's need for praise and appreciation. I suspect that even Donald Trump deep down is desperate for a compliment. Spiritual people do not see people's "need" for support as a weakness or flaw. They see it as a cry for love, and they comply without hesitation. On the other hand, those who respond to a compliment with grandiose objections and deflections, who cannot accept a compliment with grace, probably feel they are not worthy of it. But they are worthy of it. Even the Don is worthy of it.
- 14. 7 - They Worship Where and When the Spirit Moves Them.
- 15. They don't need a mosque or a church to practice their spirituality. They don't even need a rabbi or a priest or a lama. Their spiritual setting is a forest, a beach, a mountain top. Their setting is a movable spiritual feast, for they know the true spiritual setting is within. And it travels with, and within, them wherever they go.
- 16. And a year-end bonus:
- 17. 8- They Laugh a Lot
- 18. Have you noticed? Santa ho-ho-ho's his way down the chimney. The Dalai Lama giggles his way to enlightenment. Alfred E. Neuman has that eternal grin. The Laughing Buddha is, well, laughing. Spiritual people are happy. Not just the smiley-face kind of happy, but the deep-down-content kind of happy. If you have trouble getting to happy, try this trick I learned years ago from no less a sage source than the musical "Bye Bye Birdie": "Just put on a happy face." The act of smiling alone triggers a happy hormonal shift, from "gloomy mask of tragedy" to "spreading sunshine all over the place." And what could be more spiritual than that?
- 19. Thank you