Understanding
Traumatic Stress
A Brief Overview
What’s In Store?
 Part 1: Recognizing Trauma
 Definitions of Trauma
 Three Types of Trauma
 Short-term and long term impact
 Principles of Trauma Treatment
 Part 2: Responding to Traumatized People
 ARC (Attachment, self-Regulation, &
Competency)
 Building safety, attachment, and attunement
Recognizing Trauma
Part 1
What Is “Trauma”?
American Psychological
Association
“ an emotional response to a terrible
event like an accident, rape or natural
disaster ”
Merriam-Webster
Dictionary
“ a disordered psychic or behavioral
state resulting from severe mental or
emotional stress or physical injury. an
emotional upset ”
Australian Psychological
Society
“ The word ‘trauma' is derived from the
Greek term for ‘wound'. Very
frightening or distressing events may
result in a psychological wound or
injury - a difficulty in coping or
functioning normally following a
particular event or experience. “
SAMHSA Definition
Individual trauma results from an event, series of
events, or set of circumstances that is
experienced by an individual as physically or
emotionally harmful or threatening and that has
lasting adverse effects on the individual's
functioning and physical, social, emotional, or
spiritual well-being...
In short, trauma is the sum of the event,
the experience, and the effect.
Three Types of Trauma
Acute
(isolated event)
Trauma
Chronic
(repeated or
prolonged)
Trauma
Complex
(developmental)
Trauma
An isolated
event such as
being the victim
of a crime,
surviving a
natural disaster,
or a serious
accident
Living through
an ongoing
situation such as
experiencing
domestic
violence, or a
war
Experiencing multi-
layered traumatic
circumstances such
as caregiver abuse
or neglect, or a
combination of
multiple trauma
events, particularly
in childhood.
Prevalence
Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE)
reported by adults:
 28% physical abuse, 21% sexual abuse,
15% emotional neglect
 10% physical neglect, 13% domestic
violence, 27% substance abuse in home
The Impact of Trauma
 About 80% of 21 year olds who were
abused as children met criteria for at least
one psychological disorder (e.g.
Depression, Anxiety)
 ACE in any category increased the risk of
attempted suicide 2- to 5-fold
 Persons who have experienced 5 or more
ACE events had a nearly threefold increase
in rates use of psychotropic prescriptions.
The Brain
Mid-Brain – Motor regulation,
arousal, appetite, sleep
Brain Stem – blood pressure,
heart rate, body temperature
Cortex – Abstract thought,
concrete thought, language
Limbic System – Attachment,
sexual behavior, emotional
reactivity
About The Human Brain
 Develops in a use-
dependent fashion
 Repeated activation of
specific nerve connections
develops those
connections and the areas
required to sustain those
connections
 Areas that do not get
consistent, repeated
stimulation may not
develop at all HHS Child Welfare Information Gateway
Acute Response To Trauma
 In the reptilian and animal brain:
 Hyper or Hypo-arousal: Fight, Flight, Freeze,
Submit.
 Information is processed directly for survival
purposes.
 In the cortex:
 New information is not processed or retained.
 Rational thought is avoided in favor of
survival-related activities.
About “Fight or Flight”
Fight
When a threat
can be
conquered
Flight
When a
threat can be
avoided
Submit
When a threat
can be
mitigated
Freeze
When there is
no way to
avoid harm
Posturing
Verbal
outbursts or
threats
Confrontation
Physical
aggression
Physically
moving away
Dissociation
Hiding
“shrinking”
in posture,
tone of voice
“if you can’t
beat them,
join them”
Self-harm
Instigating
Defending
the attacker
Complete
helplessness
Physical
freezing
Stupor
Catatonia
Lasting Effects of Trauma
 Attachment and attunement:
 Struggles to empathize with others
 Difficulty identifying others’ feelings through
verbal or visual cues OR extreme sensitivity to
others’ feelings perceived through these cues
 Isolation, or trouble developing safe, trusting
relationships
 Unhealthy physical boundaries (touch aversion,
sexual or social permissiveness)
Lasting Effects of Trauma
 Physical challenges:
 Problems with balance (e.g. uneven gait)
 Movement coordination problems
 Lack of hand/eye coordination
 Delays in growth and development (e.g.
“failure to thrive”)
 Unexplained physical pain
 Sleep disturbances, night terrors, or altered
sleep pattern
Effects of Trauma
 Emotion and Mood:
 Difficulty describing feelings
 Feelings are experienced as overwhelming,
with limited ability to modulate
 Depression, anxiety, and numbness are
common
 Lack of affect
Effects of Trauma
 Arousal modulation:
 Dissociative states (black outs, out-of-body
experiences, a “blank stare”)
 Abrupt outbursts of anger and/or aggression
 Hyperactivity or “mania”-like presentation
 Behavioral control:
 Difficulties in impulse control
 Self-destructive behavior
Lasting Effects of Trauma
 Cognition:
 Problems with attention and concentration
 Difficulty retaining new information
 Short term memory problems
 Limited autobiographical memory
 Poor self-image and self-esteem
 Persistent intrusive thoughts and images,
sometimes resembling hallucinations
 “Arrested development”
Trauma Treatment & Recovery
In order to foster change, people’s reparative
experiences must be
 Predictable
 Consistent
 Repetitive
 Appropriate for developmental stage of the
person in the specific area of activity, rather
than their chronological age or the usual
performance of non-traumatized peers
 Inclusive of any and all unoffending caregivers
Trauma Treatment & Recovery
 The case of Robert and Mama P. (Excerpt
From the book, “The boy who was raised
as a dog”, by Dr. Bruce Perry)
 Questions for discussion:
 What themes are common to the case of
Robert and the people with whom we work?
 What feelings/thoughts arise as we consider
these common themes?
 What can we learn from this case?
Responding to
Traumatized People
Part 2
ARC Framework
 ARC: Attachment, Self-Regulation,
Competency
 In order to be effective, treatment of
complex trauma must be responsive to the
specific developmental needs of the
person, recognizing and addressing factors
that have derailed normative
development.
ARC Building Blocks
Caregiver
Affect
Mgmt
Attunement
Consistent
Response
Routines
&
Rituals
Affect
Identifi-
cation
Affect
Modulation
Affect
Expression
Executive
functions
Self-Dev’t
& Identity
Dev’tal
tasks
Attachment
 Attachment is a relational (two-way)
process, without which people do not
develop the capacity to regulate their own
emotions.
 People with complex trauma histories
often have problematic attachment styles
due to repeated disruptions in attachment
The Still Face Experiment
Attachment Styles
Attachment
Style
Behavior
Underlying
beliefs
Previous
caregiver’s
behavior
Avoidant
Emotionally
distant, does not
connect with
others
“I can’t rely on
others to meet
my needs.”
Never emotionally
or physically
available
Ambivalent
“push/pull”:
fluctuates
between
connecting and
rejecting
“There is no way
to predict whether
my needs would
be met.”
Inconsistent in
availability or
response
Disorganized
No pattern:
sometimes
Avoidant, other
times
Ambivalent.
Often
dissociative.
“Those who meet
my needs are also
likely to hurt me.”
Intermittently
aggressive and/or
abusive
Level 1: Attachment
 Goal: work with caregiver system to crate a safe
environment to support the client in meeting own
needs
 Who is considered a caregiver?
 Anyone who has regular and consistent responsibility to
support the client.
 Four tasks:
 Build caregiver capacity to manage affect
 Build caregiver-client attunement
 Build consistency in caregiver response to client
behavior
 Build routines and rituals
Caregiver Affect Management
 Caregivers can support clients in developing
healthy self-regulation skills through modeling
the response they’d like the client to develop.
 E.g. child falls down. Mother’s response determines
whether the child will cry.
 Challenges to caregiver affect management
 Client vigilance to caregiver cues
 Intensity of client affect
 Caregiver’s own history and situation
 Relational reenactments
Addressing The Challenges
 Encouraging self-awareness and self-monitoring
 Building capacity for self-care
 Developing a built-in support system
 Practicing teamwork
 Recognizing and addressing Secondary Traumatic
Stress (STS), compassion fatigue, and burnout.
 Supporting knowledge sharing activities
 Identifying successes and failures and using them
as teaching moments
Integrating Who You Are Into Your
Work
 Your personality, communication style, and
background will inevitably find their way into
your interactions with clients.
 Past hurts, traumas, and fears are bound to influence
these interactions- sometimes in unpredictable ways.
 YOU can be a powerful catalyst for client growth
and change:
 Identify what you bring into different interactions
 Recognize the impact of your life experiences on your
work
 Consciously choose which parts of YOU enter the
interaction with the client
Attunement
 Traumatized clients often have difficulty
communicating effectively.
 Behavior is an attempt to communicate
 Unmet needs
 Unregulated affect
 These difficulties may be global, or situation-
specific
 Caregivers often respond to the most distressing
symptom or behavior, rather than the underlying
emotion or need.
Value of Attunement
 Helps clients develop trust in caregiver
system
 Clients experience being understood
 Demonstrates true compassion, caring
 Allows clients to learn that their needs and
feelings will be addressed
 Facilitates prevention and rapid de-
escalation of high-intensity situations
 Increases client engagement
 Supports client behavior change
How Attunement Happens
 Become a “feelings detective”
 When the client acts, consider what he/she
might need or feel
 Consider basic needs: hot, cold, tired, hungry,
thirsty...
 Consider the fight/flight response
 Consider the client’s attachment style and possible
triggers
 Use reflective listening skills
 Practice responding to feelings/needs and
not to behavior
Consistent Response
 Predictability in caregiver response helps
clients feel safe, and reduces their need to
exert control
 Limit-setting and praise are common
triggers: they are often associated with
powerlessness and vulnerability.
 Where possible, reduce the need for limits
 Adapt response to the individual needs of the
client
 Build on successes
Routines and Rituals
 Trauma is often associated with chaos and
unpredictability
 Routines enable clients to feel safe,
anticipate and evaluate their experience,
and learn reliability
 It is important to be selective in
developing routines/rituals, build-in
flexibility
 Routines/rituals are often subtle
Core Principles
 Safety
 How do we know whether a situation is safe?
 How do we know if a person is safe?
 How does our personal definition of safety
impact our interactions with clients?
 Does our idea of safety translate into our work
environment? Why? Why not?
 What are the challenges in creating /
maintaining safety in our environment and
interactions? How do we overcome them?
Core Principles
 Consistency
 What are some challenges to consistency that we
encounter in our day-to-day?
 What can you do to create consistency? What support
do you need, and from whom?
 Repetition
 Why is repetition important? Why is it good?
 How much is too much repetition? How much is not
enough?
 How do we feel about repetition? How do we manage
any potentially negative feelings?
Thank You!
Questions, Comments, and
Feedback welcome!

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  • 1.
  • 2.
    What’s In Store? Part 1: Recognizing Trauma  Definitions of Trauma  Three Types of Trauma  Short-term and long term impact  Principles of Trauma Treatment  Part 2: Responding to Traumatized People  ARC (Attachment, self-Regulation, & Competency)  Building safety, attachment, and attunement
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  • 4.
    What Is “Trauma”? AmericanPsychological Association “ an emotional response to a terrible event like an accident, rape or natural disaster ” Merriam-Webster Dictionary “ a disordered psychic or behavioral state resulting from severe mental or emotional stress or physical injury. an emotional upset ” Australian Psychological Society “ The word ‘trauma' is derived from the Greek term for ‘wound'. Very frightening or distressing events may result in a psychological wound or injury - a difficulty in coping or functioning normally following a particular event or experience. “
  • 5.
    SAMHSA Definition Individual traumaresults from an event, series of events, or set of circumstances that is experienced by an individual as physically or emotionally harmful or threatening and that has lasting adverse effects on the individual's functioning and physical, social, emotional, or spiritual well-being... In short, trauma is the sum of the event, the experience, and the effect.
  • 6.
    Three Types ofTrauma Acute (isolated event) Trauma Chronic (repeated or prolonged) Trauma Complex (developmental) Trauma An isolated event such as being the victim of a crime, surviving a natural disaster, or a serious accident Living through an ongoing situation such as experiencing domestic violence, or a war Experiencing multi- layered traumatic circumstances such as caregiver abuse or neglect, or a combination of multiple trauma events, particularly in childhood.
  • 7.
    Prevalence Adverse Childhood Experiences(ACE) reported by adults:  28% physical abuse, 21% sexual abuse, 15% emotional neglect  10% physical neglect, 13% domestic violence, 27% substance abuse in home
  • 8.
    The Impact ofTrauma  About 80% of 21 year olds who were abused as children met criteria for at least one psychological disorder (e.g. Depression, Anxiety)  ACE in any category increased the risk of attempted suicide 2- to 5-fold  Persons who have experienced 5 or more ACE events had a nearly threefold increase in rates use of psychotropic prescriptions.
  • 9.
    The Brain Mid-Brain –Motor regulation, arousal, appetite, sleep Brain Stem – blood pressure, heart rate, body temperature Cortex – Abstract thought, concrete thought, language Limbic System – Attachment, sexual behavior, emotional reactivity
  • 10.
    About The HumanBrain  Develops in a use- dependent fashion  Repeated activation of specific nerve connections develops those connections and the areas required to sustain those connections  Areas that do not get consistent, repeated stimulation may not develop at all HHS Child Welfare Information Gateway
  • 11.
    Acute Response ToTrauma  In the reptilian and animal brain:  Hyper or Hypo-arousal: Fight, Flight, Freeze, Submit.  Information is processed directly for survival purposes.  In the cortex:  New information is not processed or retained.  Rational thought is avoided in favor of survival-related activities.
  • 12.
    About “Fight orFlight” Fight When a threat can be conquered Flight When a threat can be avoided Submit When a threat can be mitigated Freeze When there is no way to avoid harm Posturing Verbal outbursts or threats Confrontation Physical aggression Physically moving away Dissociation Hiding “shrinking” in posture, tone of voice “if you can’t beat them, join them” Self-harm Instigating Defending the attacker Complete helplessness Physical freezing Stupor Catatonia
  • 13.
    Lasting Effects ofTrauma  Attachment and attunement:  Struggles to empathize with others  Difficulty identifying others’ feelings through verbal or visual cues OR extreme sensitivity to others’ feelings perceived through these cues  Isolation, or trouble developing safe, trusting relationships  Unhealthy physical boundaries (touch aversion, sexual or social permissiveness)
  • 14.
    Lasting Effects ofTrauma  Physical challenges:  Problems with balance (e.g. uneven gait)  Movement coordination problems  Lack of hand/eye coordination  Delays in growth and development (e.g. “failure to thrive”)  Unexplained physical pain  Sleep disturbances, night terrors, or altered sleep pattern
  • 15.
    Effects of Trauma Emotion and Mood:  Difficulty describing feelings  Feelings are experienced as overwhelming, with limited ability to modulate  Depression, anxiety, and numbness are common  Lack of affect
  • 16.
    Effects of Trauma Arousal modulation:  Dissociative states (black outs, out-of-body experiences, a “blank stare”)  Abrupt outbursts of anger and/or aggression  Hyperactivity or “mania”-like presentation  Behavioral control:  Difficulties in impulse control  Self-destructive behavior
  • 17.
    Lasting Effects ofTrauma  Cognition:  Problems with attention and concentration  Difficulty retaining new information  Short term memory problems  Limited autobiographical memory  Poor self-image and self-esteem  Persistent intrusive thoughts and images, sometimes resembling hallucinations  “Arrested development”
  • 18.
    Trauma Treatment &Recovery In order to foster change, people’s reparative experiences must be  Predictable  Consistent  Repetitive  Appropriate for developmental stage of the person in the specific area of activity, rather than their chronological age or the usual performance of non-traumatized peers  Inclusive of any and all unoffending caregivers
  • 19.
    Trauma Treatment &Recovery  The case of Robert and Mama P. (Excerpt From the book, “The boy who was raised as a dog”, by Dr. Bruce Perry)  Questions for discussion:  What themes are common to the case of Robert and the people with whom we work?  What feelings/thoughts arise as we consider these common themes?  What can we learn from this case?
  • 20.
  • 21.
    ARC Framework  ARC:Attachment, Self-Regulation, Competency  In order to be effective, treatment of complex trauma must be responsive to the specific developmental needs of the person, recognizing and addressing factors that have derailed normative development.
  • 22.
  • 23.
    Attachment  Attachment isa relational (two-way) process, without which people do not develop the capacity to regulate their own emotions.  People with complex trauma histories often have problematic attachment styles due to repeated disruptions in attachment
  • 24.
    The Still FaceExperiment
  • 25.
    Attachment Styles Attachment Style Behavior Underlying beliefs Previous caregiver’s behavior Avoidant Emotionally distant, doesnot connect with others “I can’t rely on others to meet my needs.” Never emotionally or physically available Ambivalent “push/pull”: fluctuates between connecting and rejecting “There is no way to predict whether my needs would be met.” Inconsistent in availability or response Disorganized No pattern: sometimes Avoidant, other times Ambivalent. Often dissociative. “Those who meet my needs are also likely to hurt me.” Intermittently aggressive and/or abusive
  • 26.
    Level 1: Attachment Goal: work with caregiver system to crate a safe environment to support the client in meeting own needs  Who is considered a caregiver?  Anyone who has regular and consistent responsibility to support the client.  Four tasks:  Build caregiver capacity to manage affect  Build caregiver-client attunement  Build consistency in caregiver response to client behavior  Build routines and rituals
  • 27.
    Caregiver Affect Management Caregivers can support clients in developing healthy self-regulation skills through modeling the response they’d like the client to develop.  E.g. child falls down. Mother’s response determines whether the child will cry.  Challenges to caregiver affect management  Client vigilance to caregiver cues  Intensity of client affect  Caregiver’s own history and situation  Relational reenactments
  • 28.
    Addressing The Challenges Encouraging self-awareness and self-monitoring  Building capacity for self-care  Developing a built-in support system  Practicing teamwork  Recognizing and addressing Secondary Traumatic Stress (STS), compassion fatigue, and burnout.  Supporting knowledge sharing activities  Identifying successes and failures and using them as teaching moments
  • 29.
    Integrating Who YouAre Into Your Work  Your personality, communication style, and background will inevitably find their way into your interactions with clients.  Past hurts, traumas, and fears are bound to influence these interactions- sometimes in unpredictable ways.  YOU can be a powerful catalyst for client growth and change:  Identify what you bring into different interactions  Recognize the impact of your life experiences on your work  Consciously choose which parts of YOU enter the interaction with the client
  • 30.
    Attunement  Traumatized clientsoften have difficulty communicating effectively.  Behavior is an attempt to communicate  Unmet needs  Unregulated affect  These difficulties may be global, or situation- specific  Caregivers often respond to the most distressing symptom or behavior, rather than the underlying emotion or need.
  • 31.
    Value of Attunement Helps clients develop trust in caregiver system  Clients experience being understood  Demonstrates true compassion, caring  Allows clients to learn that their needs and feelings will be addressed  Facilitates prevention and rapid de- escalation of high-intensity situations  Increases client engagement  Supports client behavior change
  • 32.
    How Attunement Happens Become a “feelings detective”  When the client acts, consider what he/she might need or feel  Consider basic needs: hot, cold, tired, hungry, thirsty...  Consider the fight/flight response  Consider the client’s attachment style and possible triggers  Use reflective listening skills  Practice responding to feelings/needs and not to behavior
  • 33.
    Consistent Response  Predictabilityin caregiver response helps clients feel safe, and reduces their need to exert control  Limit-setting and praise are common triggers: they are often associated with powerlessness and vulnerability.  Where possible, reduce the need for limits  Adapt response to the individual needs of the client  Build on successes
  • 34.
    Routines and Rituals Trauma is often associated with chaos and unpredictability  Routines enable clients to feel safe, anticipate and evaluate their experience, and learn reliability  It is important to be selective in developing routines/rituals, build-in flexibility  Routines/rituals are often subtle
  • 35.
    Core Principles  Safety How do we know whether a situation is safe?  How do we know if a person is safe?  How does our personal definition of safety impact our interactions with clients?  Does our idea of safety translate into our work environment? Why? Why not?  What are the challenges in creating / maintaining safety in our environment and interactions? How do we overcome them?
  • 36.
    Core Principles  Consistency What are some challenges to consistency that we encounter in our day-to-day?  What can you do to create consistency? What support do you need, and from whom?  Repetition  Why is repetition important? Why is it good?  How much is too much repetition? How much is not enough?  How do we feel about repetition? How do we manage any potentially negative feelings?
  • 37.
    Thank You! Questions, Comments,and Feedback welcome!

Editor's Notes

  • #5 Substance abuse and mental health services administration (SAMHSA)
  • #19 “Mama P.* was a large, powerful woman. She moved with confidence and strength. She wore a large, brightly colored muumuu and had a scarf around her neck. She’d come for a consultation about Robert, a seven-year-old child she was fostering. Three years before our visit, this boy had been removed from his mother’s custody. Robert’s mom was a prostitute who’d been addicted to cocaine and alcohol for her son’s whole life. She had neglected and beaten him; the boy had also seen her beaten by customers and pimps and had himself been terrorized and abused by her partners. Since being removed from his home Robert had been in six foster homes and in three shelters. He had been hospitalized for out-of-control behaviors three times. He had been given a dozen diagnoses including ADHD, ODD, Bipolar disorder, Schizoaffective disorder, and various learning disorders. He was often a loving and affectionate child, but he had episodic “rages” and aggression that scared peers, teachers and foster parents enough for them to reject him and have him removed from whatever setting he was in after he went on one of his rampages. Mama P. had brought him to us because once again, his inattentiveness and aggression had gotten him into trouble at school and the school had demanded that something be done. He reminded me of many of the boys I had worked with in Chicago at the residential treatment center. As I began talking I tried to engage Mama and make her feel comfortable. I knew that people can “hear” and process information much more effectively if they feel calm. I wanted her to feel safe and respected. Thinking back now, I must have seemed very patronizing to her. I was too confident; I thought I knew what was going on with her foster child and the implicit message was “I understand this child, and you don’t”. She looked at me defiantly, her face unsmiling, her arms folded. I went into long-winded and likely unintelligible explanation of the biology of the stress response and how it could account for the boy’s aggression and hyper-vigilance symptoms. I had not yet learned how to clearly explain the impact of trauma on a child. “so what can you do to help my baby?” she asked. He language struck me: why was she calling a seven-year-old child a baby? I wasn’t sure what to make of it. I suggested Clonidine, the medication I’d used with Sandy, and the boys at the center. She interrupted quietly but firmly, “you will not use drugs on my baby.” I tried to explain that we were quite conservative with medications, but she wouldn’t hear it. “No doctor is going to drug up my baby,” she said. At this point the child psychiatry fellow, Robert’s primary clinician, who was sitting next to me, started to fidget. This was awkward. Mr. Bigshot Vice-Chairman and Chief of Psychiatry was making an ass of himself. I was alienating this mother and getting nowhere. I again tried to explain the biology of the stress response system, but she cut me off. “Explain what you just told me to the school,” she said pointy. “My baby does not need drugs. He needs people to be loving and kind to him. That school and all those teachers don’t understand him.” “OK. We can talk to the school.” I retreated. And then I surrendered. “Mama P., how do you help him?” I asked, curious about why she didn’t have the problems with his “rages” that had gotten him expelled from prior foster homes and schools. “ I just hold him and rock him. I just love him. At night when he wakes up scared and wanders the house, I just put him to bed next to me, rub his back and sing a little and he falls asleep.” The fellow was now stealing looks at me, clearly concerned: seven-year-olds should not be sleeping in bed with their caregivers. But I was intrigued and continued to listen. “what seems to calm him down when he gets upset during the day?” I asked. “Same thing. I just put everything down and hold him and rock in the chair. Doesn’t take too long, poor thing.” As she said this I recalled a recurring pattern in Robert’s records. In every one of them, including the latest referral from the school, angry staff reported frustration with the boy’s noncompliance and immature “baby-like” behaviors, and complained about his neediness and clinginess. I asked Mama P., “So when he acts like that, you don’t ever get frustrated and angry?” “Do you get angry with a baby when a baby fusses?” she asked. “No. That is what babies do. Babies do the best they can and we always forgive them if they mess, if they cry, if they spit up on us.” “And Robert is your baby?” “They are all my babies. It’s just that Robert has been a baby for seven years.” We ended the session and made another appointment for a week later. I promised to call the school. Mama P. looked at me as I walked with Robert down the clinic hall. I joked that Robert needed to come back to teach us more. At that, she finally smiled. Over the years Mama P. continued to bring her foster children to our clinic. And we continued to learn from her. Mama P. discovered, long before we did, that many young victims of abuse and neglect need physical stimulation, like being rocked and gently held, comfort seemingly appropriate for far younger children. She knew that you don’t interact with these children based on their age, but based on what they need, what they may have missed during “sensitive periods” of development. Almost all the children sent to her had a tremendous need to be held and touched. Whenever my staff saw her in the waiting room holding and rocking these children, they expressed concern that she was infantilizing them. But I came to understand why her overwhelmingly affectionate, physically nurturing style, which I'd initially worried might be stifling for older children, was often just what the doctor should order. These children had never received the repeated, patterned physical nurturing needed to develop a well-regulated and responsive stress response system. They had never learned that they were loved and safe; they didn’t have the internal security needed to safely explore the world and grow without fear. They were starving for touch- and Mama P. gave it to them. “