Hello, dear friends!
I wish you the best of a new year, all the joy and safety and health one can hold. 🙂
Hello, dear friends!
I wish you the best of a new year, all the joy and safety and health one can hold. 🙂

© T for openphoto.net
I’ve been bursting at the seams for quite awhile now, wanting to tell you about a new project I am developing. I can wait no longer – today is when I introduce you to my new “baby”.
In the new year, The Sunshine Factor blog will join a new website. The blog will still be around but be just one part of something much larger and better! Look for a countdown next month…
The new website will be written by me and contributed to by writers, photographers and storytellers. It will have some of your old favorites like humanizing stories, poems, and recipes. Bursting in on the scene will be new regular features and columns, sure to become new favorites.
Here is where you, my reader, comes into the picture. I am looking for writers who can contribute specified works to the project, writers and photographers who are interested in seeing a great new site become FABULOUS! Unfortunately, I cannot pay you literal cash for your contributions, but our reward will be seeing another strong community be built in the name of inner sunshine, wonderful works of art, and a real sense of accomplishment. It will be something that you will tell your friends and family about. Nothing will be able to stop us! 🙂
I’m forming a group of interested parties who I will contact as a group via email. I will set forth the writing guidelines needed and describe the various columns and features of which you may want to take a part. Please consider this valuable opportunity…
I’m also looking for members to form an advisory panel that I will consult with. I would like the staff of my new site to include more than just me.! Together we can be strong! United! Solid! Enjoying our literary world!
Please fill out the form below, which will take two, maybe three seconds. It is a lightning-quick way to invest your time into something great. Thank you for your consideration!
Sincerely,
Debb Stanton
P.S. The full credit for the beautiful photo above is: © T for openphoto.net
I have many things ready to become new to our house and life pretty soon.
1) My business looks to be thriving; I won’t be sure until mid-March, but so far I’m thankful for you folks who have visited my shops and maybe even purchased something.
2) Our new cat Rachael hasn’t arrived at the Stanton’s yet due to how we wanted to get her medical care at the vet before we bring her home. We pick her up this Saturday. 🙂
3) I’ve been asked to represent my department at work for a special study they are doing. This involved going to the other corporate office (the one that’s next to the Mall of America) last week for a training meeting, and today I am starting my workday out there for a half hour meeting.
4) Remember I told you my good friend Patti is moving away this year? Well, March 7th most of her furniture is being moved to us where we will give it a good home. I bought practically a whole house’s worth of furniture, and I am so excited! I feel like I’m going to be re-nesting! 🙂
Items 2 and 4 will take the most getting used to, but it’s fun! It’s almost like another New Year already!
You just never know what a month or two can bring! In preparation for what may occur, keep on smiling! 🙂
You are obviously not 13 anymore, but I had to picture a chocolate birthday cake 🙂
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR HUSBAND!
Another year has gone by
To recap all that happened, it would be hard to try
Times of despair
Times to care
But most of all Love
Sent straight from above
A woman who adores you
You even avoided the flu
You’re blossoming like a flower
Here it is, now is the hour
I hope you have a great, great day
The past has to stay away
God bless your new year
Your Dear is ever here, never fear.
(XX OO to RA)
New Year’s Day reminds me of my dear sister.
Although I’m a writer,
I have never had a concrete writing-each-day-in-a-diary or journal practice.
Back when I was 7 or 8
I received my first diary for Christmas,
and I can still remember the simple notation
I made on January 1st.
“Played with my new doll.
Walked down the street to Clancy Park with Sandra
to see if the ice rink was ready to skate on yet.”
Such innocent words,
full of hope and love.
Sandra was three years older than I,
so I thought it was fabulous
that SHE would invite ME for a walk.
I had to grab those great chances when I could.
Now that she’s dead and gone,
I of course wish I could make another memory with her.
I miss her most of all
when I do use a journal
and even now when I am blogging most of my words.
She had encouraged me in my writing
and had even bought me a book on publishing children’s stories.
Maybe she could see something in me
that I wasn’t aware of yet.
I miss Sandra terribly
and hope that other people can be close to their siblings
while they have the chance.
Dear God,
I look out at the white snow in this below-zero place,
wearing my all-white, terry cloth-lined bathrobe to signify a fresh new slate.
The year is new
but most of my hopes and dreams have been with me forever.
I still want to follow in your footsteps
(you know how my own can falter sometimes)
and at the same time,
learn how to be a better person.
I still want corruption and violence to cease,
mental illness understood and treated,
and your peace to be accepted and taken in by all
and practiced by all.
Let your love light our way
and bring us out of the darkness.
The year 2012 was a very good year for me;
I didn’t realize there would ever be a year like that.
I didn’t want 2012 to end for this reason,
but I know that time marches on.
Lord, as I march forward in my life
give me clear direction for my new dreams
and while marching to a different drummer
still follow you.
I dedicate 2013 to your glory.
Amen.
I’ve learned last year that black-eyed peas are a Southern dish associated with good luck. I give you this recipe from The Joy of Cooking cookbook.
HOPPING JOHN
Bring to a boil in a large covered saucepan:
1-1/4 cups dry black-eyed peas
4 cups water
After boiling 2 minutes, remove pan from heat and let stand 1 hour. Add:
1-1/2 cups chopped onions
1/2 teaspoon pepper
1/4 teaspoon crushed dried red pepper
1 minced clove garlic
1 bay leaf
After bringing to a boil, cover and simmer 1 hour, stirring occasionally. Stir in:
8 oz coarsely chopped salt pork
Simmer another hour, uncovered, stirring frequently. Remove the salt pork and the bay leaf. Slightly mash the pea mixture.
Season to taste.
Serve with boiled rice. (I think I will be using the Hopping John as the starch of the meal and serving it with pork chops and vegetables.)
It’s this time of year, more than any other, that resolutions take center stage in conversations or brainstorming. Advertisers take advantage of this and provide us with endless solutions of how they can help us achieve the things we resolve to do or change about ourselves. No wonder we get tired of seeing commercial after commercial for fitness clubs and diet organizations.
As you might recall from earlier posts, I now have intentions – things I intend to pursue or work on. I even limit those to two at a time. But resolutions, for me, a recovering perfectionist, are harmful. Let me tell you about how resolutions have been in my life.
January 1st was always a fun day for me, as I would incorporate MANY new practices into my day. I’d go to bed that night pleased with myself that I had achieved so much. Ah, but that was only a facade. The real tests would come after the first day of the new year was over with.
I’d feel bad if I didn’t read a daily devotional book every single day, and worse yet, I’d often try to catch up and read two weeks’ worth of pages.
After a week or two of exercising every single day, I would just stop and give up.
“Oh well [sigh].” I often said that when giving up on something I couldn’t be “perfect” about.
Granted, it’s good to have ideas for ways you would like to change, but the danger comes in when you use those plans as a weapon against yourself or as an impossible measuring stick.
Weight loss diets are exactly like resolutions – they can make you feel like a failure if you can’t be perfect about it. Is this what we want for ourselves?
If you’re like me, you need to be patient with yourself and realize you are only one person, and you can’t change overnight – or at least, make changes that are long-lasting.
Any time of year is a good time to practice a new (or desired) skill – any time that you feel like it – yes, even July 21st.